Ok.Here's the situation.I sent her a message on a site I recently joined made for the purpose of Ow/Ym dating.I sent her a message because she had viewed my profile a few times.Well,She responded back and asked "Where and what time".So,She is looking to meet.I do have a lot of info. about me in my profile,but there is really nothing in hers,specially a pic.I know older women don't play games,So,I'm wondering what that could possibly mean.She's seen my pic and finds me attractive,but she wants to meet off the bat.I'm not too sure on what to expect.Mainly because I don't know much about her.I am excited about it and all,but wanting to meet so quick was a real curve ball.Any suggestions? Any thoughts?
2007-02-13 06:57:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way,I'm 19 and she's in her 40's.
2007-02-13 06:58:39 · update #1
Listen bra, if you're going to go cougar hunting, you best learn some things - First, this one wants to get laid, nothing more. So, if you want to bag a Coug- then go for it, but suit up your man before you send him in... who knows where this Cougar has been! If she wanted a relationship, she would have more info, would want to talk first - this one doesn't. Might want to meet in a public place and have a bit of a chat do see what's up before taming the kitty.
Second - Cougars are smart, experienced and have heard everything you can imagine, so don't pretend to be someone you aren't, they'll see right through it!
Cougar hunting is fun, but can be dangerous. Be careful, be cautious, have fun!!
Aloha!!!
2007-02-13 07:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never consider meeting someone with a empty or only slightly complete profile and no pic online, especially if we were both on a site whose purpose was for people to meet/date.
She's hiding something....may not be a woman at all, or may be married so is having to be 'discreet' (which seems the PC term for cheater these days).
Consider this a huge red flag (Danger Will Robinson!) and let her know you may be interested when you've had the opportunity to peruse the same amount of info and visual about her as she has of you.
Also, although it may not make a difference, add a line of text in your profile there letting people know they need not contact you unless they have a current photo and completed profile.
2007-02-13 07:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have a mentally immature older women, otherwise why would she bang a boy. Now that's a real complement. Someday you'll have children/wife and you can tell them what a man you were for banging this bimbo. You stud you! Don't forget protection I doubt she's very responsible. Your life will really look wonderful if you knock up an old bimbo.
You need to decide weather you are a BOY or a man. From a man's perspective this is as foolish as it gets.
2007-02-13 07:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a member of AFF? Just be careful, there are a lot of bogus profiles on that site - mostly to lure you to a pay website.
If the profile has several different pics of her, then you are probably ok. To be safe, meet her in a public place (coffee shop, cafe, restaurant). Make sure she is who she portrays. Then, if everything checks out and you want to go through with it, by all means, ENJOY!
2007-02-13 07:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of people like to meet and get it over with rather than spend a lot of time emailing. That way you can move on if there is no connection. I'd make her send you a pic and give you more info before meeting . . . she could just be trying to cheat on a hubby.
2007-02-13 07:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh there is older women who do play games. My ex sister n law loved to find younger guys cause she said she could train them to do as she wanted.
Since she is wanting to meet right off the bat...something is wrong there. You should be careful.
2007-02-13 07:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by superstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personaly love older women they understand the thank you to maintain a guy happy simply by fact they understand what men prefer they have been given us discovered head to toe at their age. additionally they discover us sexualy apealing simply by fact we are able to final longer in mattress and save up. maximum men lose force while they become previous and the quantity of try drops like a huge hit to a business enterprise competitor. the competition is the extra youthful more suitable extra agile men. they'd do issues in mattress maximum men over 50 cant anymore. women persons prefer to be happy in mattress purely as much as us youthful men prefer an expierienced lady to tutor us how its finished. So Im a cougar hound simply by fact i like to have somebody whos prepared to be previous fasioned and nicely mannered. unlike those 19 22 twelve months olds who're fastened on their telephones better than the truly date itself. It pisses me off while a woman dates her telephone truly of me than to actualy have an intellegent acceptable communique one on one.
2016-09-29 01:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong - older women do play games. Be careful. There was a guy that came to meet a woman that he met online - she wasn't what she claimed to be - nothing like her pictures and he found a body in her freezer.
2007-02-13 07:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probably just looking for sex with a younger and wilder guy. Nothing serious. And she's probably ugly since she has no pictures up. So watch out!
2007-02-13 07:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only way it will work is if you are a mature 19 year old, that is the only way...love knows no age but it does know maturity
2007-02-13 07:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋