He wants to give her a card saying so. His teachers say he is too young for love and he sould just be friends with her. The little girl likes him. The girls parents that they are too young too.
2007-02-13 06:30:03 · 18 answers · asked by kad052025 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he's not "in love", he's 7... but there's nothing wrong with him having a little innocent crush... let him give her a card that says he likes her... maybe they can hold hands on the playground... awww... :P
2007-02-13 06:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him give her a card, but post it to her in the post to the girls' house.
Don't listen to the teachers - why do you care?
1. Dont be all 'Ahhhhhh! Hes got a girlfriend, hes got a girlfriend' because this will put him off and he might even split up with her
2. Be casual. This is the best and most simple trick of all. Be yourself and you will get along fine.
3. Dont put too much umph into it! - Don't arrange dates or anything - they are too young! Instead, dont suggest or anything but arrange play dates etc or leave it so they can only meet up at school etc
And there you are! Follow these three rules and you will be fine!
2007-02-13 06:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by adamejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all play at that age. Don't worry, they aren't going to run off together and get married in Vegas any time soon. Sure, as adults, you can say they are too young but it's still all pretend to them. Like playing fireman, he's too young to fight fires but he can go thru the motions.
The best thing is to keep the communications open with the kids and explain things as they arise. Explain to them what "love" means. What happens when you tell a kid "No, don't do that"?...The head straight for it. Give them as much information as appropriate and they'll start to see for themselves.
2007-02-13 06:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush or puppy love. It's not romantic love or love as adults know it. You know this already. I don't see a question, but there's nothing wrong with having him learn how to express his feeling, in my opinion. Kids have great capacity for love and empathy. Let him explore.
If the teacher of a class of 7 year olds don't understand this, I question the quality of the teacher.
2007-02-13 06:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are 7... What are they going to do have little kid sex? NO! I think it is important that you support your son and him expressing his feeling. This is why there are so many dogs (men and women) in the world. And I think that it would be very nice if they could hang out and watch a movie with supervision. Just make sure you set rules...
2007-02-13 06:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dismiss his feelings now don't expect him to come to you when he's a teenager.
His teacher is wrong.
There are different kinds of love. Love for a parent, love for a pet, love for a friend, love for a special friend, and when he gets older, love for a mate.
He shouldn't be told to stop telling people in his life he cares about them just because someone else has a filthy mind.
2007-02-13 06:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Chelle K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 08:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Gods sake they are only babies. Tell his teacher to stop being an idiot. What '' Do they really believe that these kids know what they are about at seven. Pleeeeeeease spare me..
2007-02-13 06:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would his teacher have any say in this? It's not like they're going to get married. So let him write what he wants.
2007-02-13 06:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with those little valentines cards they make for kids?
2007-02-13 06:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋