He is my very close friend for 12 years. There has never been anything more between us till last weekend, he came over and slept together - didnt really have sex but some kisses and saucy stuff... oh yea, he's got a gf by the way... but today he told me he got totally fed up with her tantrums, she is being a drama queen all the time, and she didnt wanna have sex for 2 months now etc... I told him to think it over, suggested to talk to her next weekend, maybe they can solve it. Well, I started to feel something for him. And got turned on by him like hell, dying to have him at least for a night, or maybe for more... if I happen to want him for more... shall I make him come over before he speaks to his gf... or wait till they split?
2007-02-13 06:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont play with their relationship, its not your business. you wouldnt be happy either, if the same happenned to you. and you only know the story from the boy's side. you cannot see clear at this stage. first they have to talk it over, make up their mind and finally come to a decision. then of course anything can happen. though you are turned on by him, nothing you should do if they remain together. there must be many more guys interesting you, dont select that one, who is engaged
but after they finish this relationship, and you still like him, go on, and start meeting him. hopefully it wont be a just1night affair. i dont recommend this kind of pleasure, its not worth it. but try to make it more than a hump. good luck :)
2007-02-14 23:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by ford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you sound like you don't even respect yourself. You don't care if you sleep with someone who is in a relationship? that's pretty disgusting. How would you feel if you were that girl? And don't you worry about std's and so on? Get a little respect for yourself and don't sleep with people who are in relationships that are sleeping with someone else! hello! It's common sense...but most girls are just skank-to-the-max and don't care if they're hurting other people or being unsafe. Grow up. Sorry if this seemed mean.
2007-02-13 06:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by lololol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do the RIGHT thing, then you wait until he ends the relationship he's in before hooking up with him.
You'd want the same respect and the same courtesy if you were the one being dumped, so it's the least you can do.
2007-02-13 06:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait to see what happens between them. Keep in mind that this might have only happened because thy are having problems.
2007-02-13 06:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Patience has its rewards. If this relationship has a future, it won't matter if it starts tonight or next week.
2007-02-13 06:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect a relationship, even if it's not yours. You'd want others to respect yours and not trying to sabotage it. Do the same for others that you would have done to you.
2007-02-13 06:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u need him just for sex why wait? but if u don't want only sex u must wait, otehrwise he will keep u both - u will be the other woman
2007-02-13 06:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait til they split for sure.
2007-02-13 06:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋