Me and my girl of 2 years officially broke up last night... we had been havin arguments/fights a lot recently.. She hasn't been calling me and I hadn't been calling her much.. so finally I called her last night and said, "Maybe we should break up.." I didn't say we were broken up.
Today I just found out she is already seeing another guy and is with him in a relationship. After one day and she didn't even bother to confirm if we really were broken up or not, after a 2 year relationship.
What do I do now? What do I do if she comes calling me back in a month or two?
2007-02-13 06:18:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends how you feel about her in that month or two. if ur in love with her, tell her how u felt about this situation and that u dont wanna get hurt again what she did hurt you and all of that. if u dont love her dont get back with her. and btw, in my opinion, i think she was already seeing this new guy behind ur back.
2007-02-13 06:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by rramkay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like to me, that maybe she was already into this other guy and may have even been seeing him behind your back. She may have been waiting for you to call it quits, so that she could come crawling back to you later with the excuse of you broke up with me not me with you. If that happens she may be using you just have someone around, and then when something she thinks is better will leave you for him. Once she is done with him or vice versa, she could come back because she doesn't want to be alone. I have seen many girls do this including my friends and I think it is wrong, but hey some girls are just evil. I would not take her back especially with how the whole thing ended and with the new guy all of a sudden. A 2 year relationship should be mourned over, so to speak, for longer than a couple of hours.
2007-02-13 06:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by kekemapa35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously her not calling you lately, should have given you the "light" that she's moved on* Her fighting with you all the time was probably to make herself feel better as she's been lying to you and going out behind your back, getting closer with someone else. You don't just overnight have a new boyfriend* She couldn't wait for you to say those words....bout breaking up* She jumped all over it., now it made her feel....WELL HE broke up with me* and her guilt is freed*
I Would DEFINATELY NOT take her back if she rings you in a months time when she's had her thing with this other fellow.....Tell her
She's just a lil too late*...........You're done with her and her games* Tell her to find another sucker cuz you've also moved on*
even tho you're hurting with having a 2yr relationship and then she pulls this crap. WOW> she's not worth your time and effort* Move on to better and brighter things~*
2007-02-13 06:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... anyone who gets over there bf in a day and meets someone else that quick obviously isn't worth worrying about anymore she moved on so quick you shouldn't even think about her anymore she obviously didn't have strong feelings for you anymore, so it's probably best now that you pick up the pieces and move on with your life and forget about her ( AND DON'T TAKE HER BACK IF SHE COMES CRAWLING BACK TO YOU IN A MONTH OR TWO )!!
2007-02-13 06:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is probably her way of making you want her back, she doesn't love that other guy. How old are you anyway? You need to grow up and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea pal, stop yer crying. Go out and get laid tonight! Someone other than her, her friend perhaps.
2007-02-13 06:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam,
she don't deserve you.
she wasn't honest ;even if she comes back to you help her out don't give a cold shoulder but tell her that you wanna be friends and nothing else.
now you should chill out! Relax! Don't bother ;coz Something better is coming your way.
when a door is closed : GOD opens a window for us.
celebrate life.Don't sit feeling low,there shall be a knock on your door and you'll meet some one amazing. Believe Me Dear; you'll remember me when you meet this person.
Be Ready.
Take Care.
2007-02-13 06:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by k.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her where to get off. This girl cheated on you when you were together and didnt even give you the time of day when a break up was on the horizon. Most people sit and work/talk it out, out of RESPECT! She completely disrespected you so if she comes crawling back, you tell that cheating ex - No Thanks!
2007-02-13 06:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Shes Just doiing It to Get back at u or something .. its probably gonna be hard to Move on But Just give her time .. Shes Gonna Realize It soon and its gonna hit her that you two are not together and shes gonna want you back and then its up to you what u want to do from there take her back or not
2007-02-13 06:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is already involved with another guy, it sounds like she was already looking which is probably why your relationship was going downhill.
If she comes calling back in a month or two...stay busy.
2007-02-13 06:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound familiar only the firsit part of that but I know for a fact that me and MY BF is not broken up yet, just talk to her and find out what is going on and good luck to you
2007-02-13 06:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, dont worry about what she'll do in a month or two, worry about yourself right now. SHe's moved on so you should just let her go. You dont have to necesarily start dating just to get back at her, just do what makes you feel comfortable.
2007-02-13 06:21:47 · answer #11 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋