I don't know what is wrong with me. Everytime I find a guy that sweeps me off my feet I think I scare them away. There is this guy that I met last semester in college and he acted like he was interested and we were going to movies together and hanging out and he would call me. He was in the navy and last semester he had to do drills. He called me every night he was away for the first time he went. He only had to go once a month. Then the texts went away and the phone calls went away. Now it seems like he is avoiding me. I love this boy to death and would do anything for him. If he wants me to leave him alone he should tell me instead of pushing me away and making me upset all the time. I text him and I keep trying to get him to tell me what he wants but he just doesn't seem to want to talk about it. Please someone, why must I be done like this???
2007-02-13 05:48:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not want someone who doesn't want you. Find your backbone and self-esteem and stop calling and texting this guy. He's not interested. You are young, (based on your info. that you are in college), you have plenty of time. Concentrate on yourself, stop looking, and love will come to you.
2007-02-13 05:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by greysannatomyfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you come across as a pycho stalker? I'm not trying to be mean, believe me. Maybe he feels you are too needy. Maybe he met someone else. Maybe he is just really busy with the war in Iraq. What it comes down to is you need to leave him alone long enough for him to miss you. Some guys, most guys, take the easiest way out and if he thinks your going to be upset it's easier for him to ignore the situation then be a stand up man and let you know what is going on.
2007-02-13 05:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by amanda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being just to nice, maybe he feels he does not deserve someone as nice as you are, or he may just not know what he wants. Take it easy and relax if the relationship is meant to be it will work out and if not, well there are other fish in the sea who would love to have a woman care about them. You have alot of life ahead of you so don't rush a relationship it is not the most important thing in life.
2007-02-13 05:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by mellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm no one can really answer this but yourself. It could be anything you said or did or it could just be him. Sometimes girls scare guys off if they talk too much, complain too much, say they love you too early, do something the guy doesnt like like drink/smoke, etc, curse, or maybe he thought he wanted to be with you but when he was away he thought about it more and something made him change his mind. If he wont answer you then you have no idea the reason but just think if there is anything you might have said or did that threw him off. Next time just take it slow and easy with guys and dont say too much personal information until you get to know them more. But then again, I wouldnt worry about it because thats who you are and why be with someone that doesnt like it?
2007-02-13 05:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it sounds like he is done with you. I know you feel like you need closure or an explanation, but take it for what it is. He doesn't like you and if he calls now it will only be for an empty booty call.
Move on and find someone that will treat you like the Queen you are!
2007-02-13 05:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't like you like that anymore, but doesn't want to tell you. guys are chicken shits like that, just ask my wife. i would tell him that you are going to give him his space, and if he doesn't contact you in xx days/weeks that you will consider the relationship over. that way, he has his way out and doesn't have to hurt you and you don't have to be hurt by his constant avoidance when you contact him.
2007-02-13 05:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested he will call. Your pestering him is not going to make him more interested. Find another guy and don't be so clingy.
2007-02-13 05:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously isn't into you anymore. the best thing is to give him space so that he realizes that he has hurt you and that you are strong and you can move on in your life without him.
2007-02-13 05:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by misselizabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph have no ideal but sorry to hear your current situation
2007-02-13 05:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so needy, maybe he's into independent type. stop asking what he wants, tell him what you want and write him a letter; if you don't hear from him, just forget him
2007-02-13 05:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋