My boyfriend and i use to have sex in the morning as well as the night time. Since i put on 20 pounds in the last year and a half, i don't care to have him look at me and my folds so we no longer have sex in the morning. It has to be at night and the lights have to be off. I know this bothers him to the point where he is really annoyed at me. So three months ago i lost 20 pounds and now we are back to having sex day and night . I notice that he takes me out alot more now and is very sweet to me. What do you make of it.
2007-02-13 05:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by mia w 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are more confident after losing weight, and your attitude is better so you are more fun to be around. Your attitude directly affects the way people treat you.
2007-02-13 05:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really clear, your weight gain affected you more than it did him. Maybe to the point of your reluctance to go out resulted in less invitations? And the sex issue is a big deal for both of you, you felt less sexy and he felt helpless.
Most men enjoy a woman who feels sexy despite her dimply thighs and rounded tummy. They love confidence!!!! He knows your body better than you do, he knows how it feels top to toes. So the lights off give you a safe place, but he probably wants to look at the woman he loves and desires.
And I speak as a fuller figured woman, let go your inhibitions they inhibit him too from showing you just how much he wants you.
2007-02-13 13:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How pothedic, it shouldnt matter to him if you had lost 20lbs or not. He should of just loved you with the way you were, no matter what. My boyfriend loves me the way i am and i have lost between 20-25lbs. Dont worry abt it, if he dont like it when that happens to you again, then loose the guy, you dont deserve it. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 13:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being healthy is a good thing....I get very turned on to a girl with a great body....not some chick (no offense) who gets out of breath going from one room to the other....so yes i think if u have a great body then u'll do fine
2007-02-13 13:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by =Matt= 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my relationship weight seems to be an issue. not because i have gained but because i have lost too much weight, about 20 lbs in the past month. my guys complains about me being to skinny but its hard for me to maintain a certain weight level.
so i understand.
i feel that
if you love someone weight shouldnt be an issue in the relationship, althought in some cases it is...
.
2007-02-13 14:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by p@nKiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably didn't like the way you looked with the extra weight or it was a turn-off. he could be rewarding you for losing the weight so that you'll feel motivated to stay that way
2007-02-13 13:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think that all guys are shallow, maybe he is just really proud of you for sticking to your commitment, or maybe its just a coincidence, or maybe you're just thinking of it because now you are happier =]
who knows, men are mysterious creatures =]
2007-02-13 13:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by toonlink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are shallow
2007-02-13 13:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋