i have this friend i met her on ,myspace. well she and i started hanging out and she told me she was a swinger. i told her i am not like that. anyways, she told me she was a accountant and then i found out she wasnt and she lied. i keep catching her in lies all the time. she lies to me and i dont know why. then i found out she really is a teller then i found out she is an auditor. she also sleeps with different men all the time she isnt married. i took her out for her bday and paid for her dinner. i gave her a present too. after dinner she took me home and didnt even give me a hug or say thank you i told her a thank you would be nice. she said thank you after i asked her. then i went to give her a hug and she was distant and weird. then she said she is competitive and i told her i am not then said sorry for saying that. Then the other day she came over my house and said that she doesnt know why i get all dressed up she said she is not competitive then the other day she said she was
2007-02-13 05:42:14 · 24 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres oviously something dodgy going on if shes lying to you so much .. you have to think how much do you ACTUALLY know about her .. she could be a decent person but she might be the complete opposite.. be careful.. if there is nothing good coming from it just leave it .. you never no what your getting your self into with meeting people over internet ..
2007-02-13 05:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by sports_babe_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that for a person to be a certain way, there is a reason for it.
Normally people who lie a lot have been hurt a lot and they seem to think that no one could ever love for who they are and what they are.
I cannot say that she is a bad person, but then I cannot say that what she is doing is good either, but you need to be the bigger person and help her out.
I believe that there is a reason why you are put in her life by God at this moment in her life. The worst thing you Can do is to validate her fears by running away as others have.
Try and start by telling her exactly what you have just told us and make sure that she understands that you see right through this act that she is performing and make her realise that you care about her and how she feels and that you would really like to know the reall her and that she need not fake her true self coz you are not a judgmental person.
Make sure that you sound as sincere as possible.
If it is not your place to do this for her then you will know in time, but for the fact that you seem to care so much about her It means that you should do all that you can and God Will help you in doing as such.
2007-02-13 05:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by dobby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously dude, this sounds like you desperate for a chick, and she gets her jollies off with mysterious guys. Stay away it's going to be a trip to the hospital for you in many scary ways. You sound like an honest man, trustworthy and loyal but she isn't she want to get passed around. The lies are because she's good at making you do what she wants, or she's just scared about the way you come across. Either way just let her open up to you and quit caring so much!
2007-02-13 05:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by chapman_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would drop her like a hot coal. Why on earth are you still going out with her. Being a swinger she demonstrates that she has sex with multiple partners. You said she lies. You have caught her doing so. If I were you I would permanently lose her phone number and find yourself a decent girl.
2007-02-13 05:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if she is competitive or not. And why do you say you are not competitive and then apologize for it. What was the reason for the apology?
Anyway, she just sounds weird. You already know she is a liar. She sounds just plain rude as well. Why do you want to be friends?
2007-02-13 05:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well number one is that she is a bit off her rocker. Hello anyone that you are going to meet on line has the ability to lie to you, but if you want to get close and be friends I think it is wise to talk to them on the phone share pics and stuff...nothing kinky needed. If she is lying to you bottom line it is not worth it! Dump her in every way shape and form. People that need to cover everything in life with a lie....nothing but trouble. Be glad you found out now...and not later. Good luck!
2007-02-13 05:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never trust someone for a long term relationship that lies about simple things... such as their occupation. It really just depends on what you want to get out of the situation
2007-02-13 05:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say a "bad" person, although it depends on your definition of bad, but she doesn't sound like someone you want to get into a relationship with and i defiantly wouldn't trust her.
2007-02-13 05:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by without.question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i dont think that you shouldve asked for a thank you....that just would of proved to you that she is one ungratful b1tch...and i dont think that she deserves to have friends and u should just back off from her..be friends but not too close anymore.
2007-02-13 05:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.garcia16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this loony for goodness sake.
2007-02-13 05:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋