I know that it's traditional for the man to pay, but why is that? I hate to think that a lot of women could possibly be such users.
2007-02-13 05:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i usually like to take turns doing the paying
simply because it's not just 'his' responsibility to do the paying.
if you are always the one forking out the cash, then you will end up feeling used.
no one likes to feel/be used.
so if you can't share or go 1/2ies or whatever then stay the hell at home
glad i don't have that problem anymore. seems like guys like the girl to pay almost as much as the girls do.
baby, it goes both ways.
2007-02-13 05:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I prefer going dutch. I refuse to have any one thinking that it obligates me to give anything in return for a dinner and a movie. You know what I mean and men do think that way MOST of the time. I also choose to drive my own car to and from a date especially in the beginning which is the safest thing to do. And if the dating gets more comfortable then we can go in my car and I drive. I leave NOTHING to chance. Nobody will get upset with me and leave me stranded! Some things are common sense and the way things have changed a woman has to take more control over situations that she puts herself into.
2007-02-13 05:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its true, woman can abuse the system. I offer to split the bill but my dates normally decline. However by the second or third date, I insist and they secretly like it.
Traditionally men earn more than woman do and in many first world countries this is still true. So until the wage discrepancy evens itself out, expect to pay for dinner a few more times.
2007-02-13 05:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 02:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, whomever makes the date should pay (however I always bring enough to cover my portion just in case). If a regular dating relationship is established, then it's perfectly acceptable (and even the right thing to do) for the woman to either pay for the date on occasion or offer to chip-in on the bill.
The guy should not always be expected to pay, even if he chooses to do so. If the woman makes the date, then she should be prepared to pay and it's up to her to allow the man to pay if he offers to do so.
2007-02-13 05:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you expect "dessert" you'd better be prepared to pay for the dinner. I personally would rather find a nice looking hooker. Chances are, she's already had dinner and doesn't need to be wined and dined. I get what I want, she gets what she wants and everyone's happy.
2007-02-13 05:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all of us do. I expect my dates to split the check with me whether they want to or not. If they resist in any way, they'll never see my face again.
2007-02-13 06:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all the time. I do pick up the tab every now and then.
2007-02-13 05:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋