i have this guy who is crushing on me and he thinks i like him and I don't he makes me mad when he comes nere me because he is always saying I am "cute" and smart Help how do I get rid of him
2007-02-13 05:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act as if he doesn't exist. . .this way you'll make him understand that you're interested at all and sooner or later you won't ever notice him . . .
2007-02-13 05:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simplest way would be to tell him you don't like him and to tell him to stop talking to you. Somewhat harsh, but could work.
Another way is to let him be, don't make eye contact with him when he's looking at you from a distance. When he comes up, don't talk much back to him. As if you don't know what to say or know how to carry a conversation. Eventually, his feelings will fade out. (Unless he's completely obsessed.)
Now if he's completely obsessed, refer to the first option. Once again, harsh. But if he is, he should come around to leaving you alone.
2007-02-13 13:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tisk Tisk, I had the same issues when i was in school. Take him somewhere quiet and just let him know how you feel. Tell him nicely that your not interested in him. If he wanted to be friends then you can deal with that (that is if you want to be his friend in return) if not you dont want to be friends with him then just tell him to leave you alone and find someone else to bug, torment etc. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 13:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not interested and then follow through. If you're actually interested in friendship, tell him that. Don't keep hanging around with him when there's no reason to as that will send a distinct "I like you" message to him despite what you say.
2007-02-13 13:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by threelucy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're not interested but you appreciate the compliments. If that doesn't work, then tell him you have a huge boyfriend in another school that is very jealous and if he doesn't leave you alone you will tell him.
2007-02-13 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told him your not interested? sometimes people dont get the hint when they dont want to see anything else but you. you need to nicely tell him that you arent in to him and if he keeps bugging you, you will report him for sexual harrasment. (even if you dont it might make him realize no means NO)
2007-02-13 13:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by The Fabulous Miss S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i have the exact same thing except he knows i dnt liek him but jsut like givin him short answeres just like yea r yup u know r start actin liek a *****
2007-02-13 13:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by yo_mama_beesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go away ... being straight is much better than ignore him and tell him nothing that why are u doing it.. it would make him more eager so tell him frankly
2007-02-13 13:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by persian_ladyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to go away cuz you don't like him like that.
2007-02-13 13:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by soccer babe 24/7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋