the love is......luck or chose ?

Question

are you chose your lover
or it's come by luck?

Answer 1

its all you put it... your lover might come to you or... you might go to your lover... but its all up to you... you have to know what you want first... before you just go out there and choose the wrong person... find what you want or like... and sooner or later... what you want will fall right into your arms... what sucks sometimes is that no one knows... is all up to what you want... its like food... it looks good... but when you eat it... you wont want to eat that no more... but if its what your looking for... you'll be going back for more... ^_^

Answer 2

As one treads from childhood through adolescence to adulthood, the person observes many a things around him/her. The feelings of 'love' may start growing from the pubertal age.If one doesn't have to move much, he/she may be lucky enough to get engaged to his/her pubertal/first love, provided such a match was already there.Often the first feelings may be for someone one sees(if he/she is not blind! already) in a magazine or a movie or something like that. Those thoughts may be cherished deep within or subconciously. Only time will tell whether somebody like him/her crosses your lifecycle or not. An overview about the ideal suitable boy/girl remains within. One has to be lucky enough to come across such a character and recognize him/her and reciprocally be recognized by him/her. One sided affairs sound good in novels only but in real life it's a hell.
There are times when the hormones of love play havoc in the body and mind. One forgets about the ideal overviews. Somebody attractive enough upto ones taste and capability may be chosen. Here some luck factor and seducing capabilities may be essential to draw attention to self also. And in this manner an exercise of trial and error may have to be undertaken for indefinite periods, may be very short - say love at first site, or very long if one is unlucky and unattractive enough, or in between.
Some persons seem very lucky to get a lot of offers. He/she , depending on his/her philosophy, may go on on tasting one after the other till the so-called final one or may have to make a choice before clinging to the most suitable one.
Ultimately it's a big zigsaw puzzle to find the most appropriate love for any person at any point of time, probably with the exception of only a very few extremely lucky persons . Nature God has provided us with the tools and the hormones and the intelligence and the conscience BUT not the man-made social prejudices which keep on changing every 30 to 50 years. Now it's upto you or any individual if one wants to remain backdated or updated or advanced in the search of true love or anything else on earth .

Answer 3

My lover came by pure luck. I was young and thought I was in love and ended up being engaged. Well out to eat with my mother this handsome man (now husband) addressed my mom and whispered in her ear and I heard her say "Go ahead" (My mom was againt the man I WAS engaged to at the time) so he gave me his number and kissed my hand. Come to find out he was the missing link in my life. I broke everything off with the one guy and got with the new guy and 5 years down the road we are married with a 2 y/o gift from god . Still to this day he can sweep me off my feet with the simplest gestures.. I am so lucky that fate brought us together because he changed the whole path of my life. God blessed the broken road that lead me to him

Answer 4

Luck!!

Answer 5

luck

Answer 6

love is the chosen luck

Answer 7

for some its luck for others its choose

Answer 8

luck of moments

Answer 9

It is luck

Answer 10

if we have a good luck we can choose a person who loves us truly.