2007-02-13 04:44:10 · 15 answers · asked by walter_nahbexie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Evidently, I broke a friends heart by being a friend and being totally honest with her- I feel totally fine about it and know that what I did what was any friend should have done... She's still unhappy and hasn't talked to me in over a year, but I couldn't bring myself to lying to her about a bad decision she was making- If being a true friend is not telling the truth to spare you "friends" feelings then I'll never make a good friend and I can absolutely live with it!!
2007-02-13 04:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by gellybean42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I did something so horrible that would break my best friend's heart, I would feel shame and guilt forever. To break a best friend's heart, I would have had to destroy her trust in me. It would have to be something horrible. Even, more horrible than gossiping about her, gossiping about a best friend is bad enough. It would have to be something like stealing her man, which I would never do. Yes, it would have to be something so horrible that it would destroy our friendship forever. How can a normal person live with such guilt? I know I could not. If I was a sane person and knew what I was doing and did it anyway, not giving a dam about my friend, then, there would be no excuse for me. I would be forced to live with guilt and shame the rest of my life.
My only hope would be if my best friend forgave and forgot what I did to her... My only hope. Then even God would forgive me too.
2007-02-13 13:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what I had done to break it. I once had to be fully honest with a friend on her bad behavior. She was very hurt, but I cared about her and had to be honest. It wasn't fun going through it, but I did what was right and we are still friends now.
So it depends on the action and if it was for their own good.
2007-02-13 12:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what I did. I mean if she asked me to tell her the truth and I did and it hurt her, then I'd feel bad but she asked for it. But if I did something just out rightly mean and in no way justifiable then I would feel really bad and I would do my best to fix it.
2007-02-13 14:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you think it's real or not. If you took a boyfriend from her and really know ( I mean 'really') that he's the one for you and not her then in time I think you'd all accept it.
But, if you took her boyfriend for lustful reasons without really considering the consequences then no.
In all situations, time will tell.
2007-02-13 12:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by cloclo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on what you did to break their heart...did you call them "fat" or take their spouse? There is a difference, you know.
2007-02-13 12:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I'd probobly be sad for a long time:(
2007-02-13 12:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have no choice. but i'd move out of town after apolagizing half a thousand times.
2007-02-13 12:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you in the right when it happened?
go with what your heart tells you.
2007-02-13 12:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, thats hurts you a lot... and everything seems to fall apart
2007-02-13 12:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by JENNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋