to my boyfriend: "you are the boss, you are the leader, i look up to you, i obey what you say, you make the choices, you decide what to do, i will listen to you, i will follow you, i will do what you do, i'm yours, tell me what to do, your older now, i must do what you say, order me to do things" why do i feel i have to tell him this?
2007-02-13 04:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by US 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question. It sounds awfully robotic to me.
Is he a very controlling guy or are you very submissive?
2007-02-13 04:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you a a brain washed fool!! You don't have to tell him ****!!!
Do you actually believe the things you say?? I bet you let him beat you up too? Sweetie, you need to run and never look back. This guy sounds like an over bearing, egotistical, manipulative, controling asshole!! His lack of self confidence is why he acts the way he does and it will only get worse. Hell I bet if you actually tell him the things you mentioned I can picture a day in your shoes. You wake him up, make breakfast, get all of his things together and he drops you off at work. He calls you 50 damn times a day to see what you are doing and gets mad if you don't answer, you walk out the door only to see him sitting in the car with a mean look on his face because you try to laugh and joke with your girlfriends, then he takes you home you cook and iron his clothes for the following day and then you have sex, not because you want it but because he is in control!!!
Are you a damn SLAVE or his girlfriend???
You should have a little more respect for yourself and get the hell out of that situation before it turns into something you hear on the news. This guy sounds like a real loser and you need to RUN!!!
2007-02-13 04:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, today is the day that I would stop all that nonsense. I would tell him that as of today there will be no more of that! Keep it up and imagine your life with him 5 years from now. He has serious problems if this is what he requires you to do and you have problems if you feel you must oblige. Run...do not look back. You will be happy you do!
2007-02-13 04:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that that's how it is in your family or culture, the women being submissive to the man? Or it could be that you have an unhealthy obsession with pleasing him for whatever reason...or a big (maybe too big) age gap.
2007-02-13 04:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by mz_bagz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you like to be controlled by your bf there are some people that love to be controlled it there thing it also can be call SM slave/Master. so if you are into that then tell him if not take back the control of your life . Good Luck.
2007-02-13 04:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you WANT to be his slave?
You'd make a loser asshole real happy. So hopefully if you say this to your boyfriend he might knock some sense into you (not literally) and change your way of thinking.
2007-02-13 04:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your boyfriend has an overinflated ego and can't feel like a man unless he has a woman tell him those things. Please get out now, sounds as if you are just wasting your time.
2007-02-13 04:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. if you feel like you have to tel him that stuf then you need to get another man sounds like hes too much trouble and high maintenance
2007-02-13 04:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you love him so much. but dont make this mistake, as right as you think it feels. he isnt perfect, although thats how you maye see him, and he could make the wrong decisions for you.
2007-02-13 04:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Morya tal i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because youre stupid dont let a guy be controlling that would be a bad mistake on your part
2007-02-13 04:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋