I really love him and i want to give him another chance but he keeps cheating on me.
He keeps saying he isn't cheating on me. What should i do!!
I once last heard from my steph sister that he was sleeping with my best friend and im still not over it.
2007-02-13 04:19:10 · 31 answers · asked by happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's cheating. Dump both your friend and this loser bf. Have respect for yourself. Do you think you deserve to be disrespected like that?
2007-02-13 04:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn’t really matter whether what kind of intentions he has by keeping the relationship with her alive, the fact of the matter is that since she was part of his history through emotional involvement then it is a sign for respect to you that he either discontinues any sort of interaction with her, or if she is true important ONLY FRIEND in his life, then he should arrange to put you at the center of this relationship out of respect to you, so he should ensure that he talks to her when you are around, the 3 of you could go out for a movie or something, I think the question of cheating comes second, the first point is how much he is demonstrating respect to you as a person by being considerate to your feelings and aware of his actions is what counts first, if this is taken care of then you can drill down to the cheating part which is off course no less important. Hope this brings a new perspective for you to think about.
2016-05-24 05:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Leave! I just went through something like that and even though it hurts and you'll always wonder why and what if...he'll still do the same things to you because you let him and he knows that he can cheat and you'll always be there for him, like some kind of back-up chick when he cant get in touch with who he really wants to be with. Just leave now, go out and meet new people, it will make you feel better and then before you know it, you'll have a good man who loves you just as much as you love him. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-13 04:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
leave b/c it want get any better. the more times u take him back the more times he will cheat. trust me i know. Have u ever heard the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" Leave him and move on with ur life u don't deserve all of that. Find u someone who want cheat. But remember not to take him back. He is only doing it b/c u are letting him do it.
2007-02-13 05:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater (it appears in his case) he will always be a cheater. If he'd only done it once, I may advise you differently, but you said it yourself "he keeps on cheating on you. He doesn't respect or love you. If he did, he would stop cheating. Leave his sorry behind and move on! You may love him, but you will get over it. You deserve someone who will love and respect you, not use and abuse you, which is clearly what your boyfriend is doing. Best of Wishes...
2007-02-13 04:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's causing this much pain then i would leave him, if he's that much of a pig then he doesnt deserve you. You might have to cinsider your source. Would your step sister say something like that to to make to mad. Or ask her where she got the information and then try to varify it on your own. this part may be harder to do, but if he deney's he is cheat wouldnt it be better if you found out if he really was or not. ask his friends, they may be a little harder to get info out of. But you deserve to know.
Hope i helped
bye
2007-02-15 06:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by briacass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop cheating if you allow it and don't leave. If there are no kids involved then the choice should be easy. You can find way better and he doesn't love you if he cheats no matter what the excuse.Good luck!
2007-02-13 04:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you now know he is not a guy of his word.
He can't be trusted, he doesn't respect you, he is a liar and he is a player.
You are enabling this situation to perpetuate.. you are taking him back, saying I forgive you... la de dah de dah..... HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOO
it teaches him he can treat you like dirt and you will take it, that means he will keep giving you the same treatment.
You are better than this, this is not love this is a farcical situation and you have delusions of some idyllic relationship that doesn't exist. You don't have one with this loser. he is going to keep stepping on your heart dear until you say enough!!!!!!!
You need to get over this dude and move on to better things and anything is better than this charade......
Kick him to the curb, he is not going to change his behaviour ... you need to change yours.....
2007-02-13 04:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump him!! You can do better. Sometimes love is not enough of a reason to stay with someone. Think of it this way, if he can so easily crawl in bed with another woman then what you two have together is no more special to him.
Move on!!!
2007-02-13 04:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest with you just dump him because you always should believe your sister because she saw it and she won't be lying to you.. and dump him and find a guy that truly loves you and care about you and show respect for you and You lucky to have a sister that cares about you alot. smiling.
Me as a male I married to my wife for 9 years and I never cheat on my wife... and she knows... so there are men out there like me that really cares about wife.
2007-02-13 06:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋