So my bf's grandmother dies and he hasn't called for three days. how long should i wait to call him? he had to go to another state and won't be back for another four.
2007-02-13 04:12:53 · 18 answers · asked by mrspres01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i did get a myspace message from him, which gave me his general where abouts for the next few days. He said he would call with more info when he had the chance....
2007-02-13 06:33:52 · update #1
You can call him....he has a lot on his mind....just be understanding...
2007-02-13 04:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rockit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him and show that you are concerned, and are there for him. If he wants to talk he will answer or call back. Don't call every day or anything. He may just want some time alone, or he's just been too busy with other things and just hasn't had a chance to call.
2007-02-13 12:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it's a hard time in his life, if you mean that much to him and you guys are really close....he would call. He would let you know how he's doing and what's going on. If he's not calling, he may just be busy w/the family or partying it up w/his friends that live there....being a complete drunk. lol Give him a call. Let him know that you care and that you're there. Just check in to make sure that he's alright.
2007-02-13 12:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ericka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now!!! Tell him you were concerned about how he was handling things and wanted to let him know you have been thinking about him and his families loss. I'm sure he's been so busy with family he probably doesn't see often and dealing with everything, that calling you has not really been convenient.
Call him and let him know you care!!! He may have been waiting on you to call first all along to show how much you care for him!!
2007-02-13 12:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and see how he is doing. When you call DO NOT get on his case for not calling you. Your boyfriend would probably appreciate you calling and checking in with him to make sure he and his family are doing alright under the circumstances.
2007-02-13 12:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by *Alice* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy friend means a very good friend and very close to heart so try to understand his feelings if you make a phone call to him in this sad situation he will be feel very good and may overcome his grandmothers death.
2007-02-13 12:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by heybapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call him now and just check up on him , make sure he is doing okay. But dont expect to talk long. But show him you care.
2007-02-13 12:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have called him to comfort him. I would be pissed if my girl didn't call me for three days after my grandma died. Heartless.
2007-02-13 12:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient. do understand that he is in great loss these days. he might want to be alone for some time. i'm sure he'll give you a call soon.
2007-02-13 12:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by francois 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him tomorrow. after four dies itll probably be good. so wait until tonight or tomorrow.
2007-02-13 12:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a ***** that asked the same question, his grandmother died, leave him alone.
2007-02-13 12:16:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋