..who is not really a donald trump, shy with women, with alternative tastes and fashion sense, get a girl to at least like him, if not love him.....? I tried once but it fell totally flat!!
2007-02-13 03:56:29 · 28 answers · asked by Star catcher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your sentence structure is confusing. Are you the guy in question or a girl asking for him?
If you are the guy in question, here is my advice.
-Do you mean Donald Trump as in money? The honest truth is yes. Women do fall for money. I have had them swear up and down it doesn't and watch them go after the guy with the nicer car, etc. Consciously it may not. Subconsciously women are looking for clues of your ability to be a provider. It's ingrained into their genes.
-Alternative tastes and fashions. Every time I here this and then see the person; it's apparent that they have NO fashion sense. Are you goth or something? Looking back at when I was 22; I had an ok fashion sense. I pretty much tried to fight the standard like every young rebel. I wish I knew then what I knew now. There is a reason that the term "timeless style" is around. Those styles have worked for a long time and will continue to do so.
-The only way to get over being shy is to stop doing it. Sounds like a strange cure, doesn't it. Get yourself involved in debate and speaking groups. Take on leadership roles in volunteer organizations.
You know it just might be easier for you to email me and tell me more. I can offer more thorough advice that way.
beancnter2002@yahoo.com
2007-02-13 04:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ben B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't give up. Sometimes it takes several, or even many tries to find the right one for you. Even Donald Trump has had several tries and who knows if this will be the last!!! You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous, or rail thin, or rich, to find someone to love. If that were true, only the rich and gorgeous would have loved ones. Look around you, people of every size, look and economic section of the population is out there trying to find someone. And don't forget that prayer changes things.
2007-02-13 12:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by judyarb1945 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy needs to accept himself before he can be accepted by woman.
Why not exercise, get some good eating habits, ask a woman friend to help you out with your fashion.
Ya know, us woman do not look at the body as much as a man does. We look inside, at the heart.
And you should be trying to find friends first, not lovers. That comes later.
2007-02-13 12:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by my little pony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's possible.
Let's say your chances are 1 in ten. If you give up after the 1st try then you will be the loser. But if you give it a try at least 10 times with 10 different girls, you increase your chances of meeting the odds, & being a winner.
So don't give up.
2007-02-13 12:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can get someone to fall in love with them. It's just a matter of finding the right person for you. When you do find the right one then all the time and effort will have been well worth it. There truly is someone perfect out there for you.
2007-02-13 12:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always attracted to heavy men. The height would be over 6ft( YOU don't have to be that tall, of course) and weight over 250 lbs. Im only 5'2. As long as u keep urself groomed and up to date with haircuts and beard trimmings, nice clothing(clean) and a positive attitude with a confident sense of humor, u are good to go. I love to see big men that "know" they got it going on. Good luck.
2007-02-13 12:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by RR77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone, but you should try to improve yourself, loosing weight, getting a good job and/or education, and work on your personal skills. The right woman can help you with the rest.
2007-02-13 12:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are girls who like guys that are different and not the same as all the rest. Who cares what you look and dress like if you have a good heart and a good personality.
2007-02-13 12:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone. There are just too many people in the world for it not to be true.
You're going to be the next guy where people say, "dayumm, how did HE get a girl like THAT!!"
2007-02-13 12:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you start a good healthy diet and a good exercise program to loose weight first, and then you ask again?
At least girls won’t think you are a lazy a$$ that is all day long typing on a keyboard. They don’t like that, they like someone that is fun, like to go out, and like tot ake care of himself.
Trust me.
2007-02-13 12:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋