i want to have a shower with my boyfriend, but not naked with eachother! no, not that ready to go that far yet! no way! but i want to ask him that i want to have a shower with him, i want to say i want us to wear our swim suites for starts, i'm gonna say i'm gonna wear my swim suite for starts in the shower, can you wear yours to? then what if he says "no i don't want to wear it"?
2007-02-13 03:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by US 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever tickles your fancy. but be aware that asking a guy to get in the shower with you is opening the door for things you don't sound like you're ready for yet. i'd keep the clothes dry and give it time.
2007-02-13 04:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, inviting a guy for a shower will be interpreted by him as having sex in the shower, and wearing swimsuits in the shower will not be what he wants to hear. You might try going into a jacuzzi together first, that way swimsuits are required logically. Or better yet, go for a swim and then rinse off in the shower together. Good luck!
2007-02-13 12:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by roll_dice_nicely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants to take a shower with someone else if they're not even naked! That's not even a shower! It's a poor man's swimming pool!!! Don't do that, it's a bad idea.
2007-02-13 12:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you both get into the shower in your swim suits and become more interested in what is under the swim suits better make sure that he has a diving cover with him.
2007-02-13 11:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats teasing... if you are not ready to go the whole way then do not do it...
2007-02-13 12:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
2007-02-13 12:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋