I have a bf that i realy love, but i have a good fr that i realy love to, and i have a neighbour that i love very much, and there is another guy a coleague that i love. my dilema is that i don't have a lot of money and i bouth only one present for valentine's day. Who should i give it to?
2007-02-13 03:49:08 · 21 answers · asked by luchi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it to me. Then you won't have to worry about hurting anyones feelings :)
2007-02-13 03:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by forestpirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd first try to learn exactly what love is. Especially for Valentines Day, I would think there should only be one special person that comes to mind. If you have a dilemma over 4 guys, I would suggest re-thinking your feelings about all of them. Surely one of them stands out more than the others.
2007-02-13 11:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's day is for showing your affection to your lover, not just those you love.
If you had children, I'd say-they get the money spent on them, But since you don't seem to, Then by all means, the boyfriend gets it!!
Maybe you can do something special for the others, like writing them a letter telling them how you feel.
2007-02-13 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by my little pony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Luchi,
I recently heard something in a film that may help you. "Whoever it is that you always take their calls, that's the person you are in a relationship with." One of these is the male MOST involved in your life right now. I don't think you are really "in love" with all of these men, it sounds more like infatuation. This is not the Judgment of Paris -- pick the one who matters most to your heart. THEN get the other two out of your head.
2007-02-13 12:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your gift to the boyfriend, then find a box of V-Day cards to give the others.
If they don't know your money woes write a short sweet note inside the card to let them know--- " I am a little short on gift/cash but not on my love for you. And I really wanted to let you know on this special day that you are a special person to me. PS--If I had twenty tons of money it would not be enough to express my love for you" Good luck and Happy Love day
2007-02-13 12:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by maduckford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm why are you even casking. Your BF is first! Valentines is more for the "romantic" love in your life. Are you romantic with all the others? You man is should be #1.
2007-02-13 13:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf. But in the future you should probably narrow down your list of suitors to at least 1 guy.
2007-02-13 11:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW thats really messed u cant be do in this to ur self that is way to many guys 4 one girl to handle get control of ur situation. and u shud be loyal to ur bf and giv him the present. there shouldnt even be a question bout it!!!!
2007-02-13 11:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gift does not matter , its just your feeling !!
I think your bf should be more satisfied with your warm kiss rather than any other present.
Regarding others , give gift to the person ,that you think has the least understanding nature !!
2007-02-13 11:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life and death? You're a dangerous person...Forget the present and give them all "what they deserve" for putting up with you.
2007-02-13 11:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋