2007-02-13 03:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by overlordfrost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
real men do not.
2007-02-13 03:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by curlyloxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men find it hard to empathise and feel stupid and clumsy explaining their feelings. Women like frankness and openness towards feelings of the heart. Unfortunately, when men feel awkward, it is unfair to expect what is unnatural to say. This leads to the age old question of how can men and women interact. We all find ways to show we care and not always vocalising what is felt internally.
Give and take....give and take....that's the way to do it.
xxR
2007-02-13 03:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men judge people by their actions, not their words. Pay attention to what he does. Words are only words. If he shows you he cares, then what's the problem?
Would you rather have a man who shows you he cares but doesn't say it, or a man who says he cares but doesn't show it?
2007-02-13 03:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men might see saying you care as showing vulnerability, and men are taught and highly pressured by society to always act strong.
2007-02-13 03:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by ergoproxy81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me guys find it hard to say they care because they don't want the girl to think that their soft inside that's why they put it as they don't care but deep down inside they care but it's a guy thing
2007-02-13 04:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring men don't find it hard to say they care - find one
2007-02-13 03:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mehera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They find it hard to care.
2007-02-13 03:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by elmechino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they try to portray there selves as tough when deep down inside they really do care and are afraid to admit the way they feel because they don't want any one to think they're soft. But my boyfriend got over that stage and it made our relationship a whole lot better because who wants to constantly telling someone the way they feel. And you keep wondering how they feel about you.
2007-02-13 03:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its becos they feel vulnerable exposin their feelings and emotions. also, they think becos they are 'the man' they don't need to say how they feel, feelings is the woman's area. but i find that once u develop trust in a relationship, they open up and they will say how they feel cos i guess, they feel secure in that relationship.
2007-02-13 10:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its very easy for them to say they care..or I have feelings..
but its very hard for them to say ''I love u''
its even hard for me to say it.which Ive never said it..even when I did want to.
2007-02-13 03:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't all - my bf is great at telling me how he feels about me and our relationship. If that is important to you I guess you need to keep looking for a guy that is able to communicate his feelings.
2007-02-13 03:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋