when there daughter has sex for the first time???? My mom says she wants to k now but then again she doesnt she says she would just hope i was smart enough to do what i need to do.Do you think you would really want to know when your daughter starts having sex???
2007-02-13 03:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes we want to know. We can not always stop it from happening and if we were to at least know about it we could make sure that you are well informed and have you on some type of protection. It could make or break your life and we want to know that you are responsible enough to handle everything that comes along with sex.
2007-02-13 03:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I will want to know. I grew up under the weight of the fact that my mom got pregnant with me before she and my dad got married. I NEVER told her I had sex before marriage, and I felt guilty for a very long time. When I came out and told her YEARS later, she never batted an eye. Your mom may freak out, but she only has your best interest at heart. I will want my son or daughter both to feel comfortable enough with me to tell me if they become sexually active. Don't get me wrong, I will encourage them to not have sex until they get married. I also live in the real world and know how much pressure there is on kids to have sex now. So, tell her, even if she freaks out, she needs to know.
2007-02-13 14:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugg0224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course moms want to know. It's a serious step in a person's life that holds serious consequences. Some kids might think their mom is not "cool" enough, won't know what she's talking about, or she would never understand, but remember ... YOU'RE HERE, so she must know a little something about sex, right?
Besides, I can't think of anyone who cares about you more than your mother. She will be there to help with your questions and offer support. And based on the conversation you have, she may even provide you with protection. So don't be afraid to go to your mom. You never know how she'll react until you try. And wouldn't it better to have this *slightly* embarassing talk with her now, than to have to go to her in a few months with the surprise news that she's going to be a grandmother? Good luck.
2007-02-13 13:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is only 10 months, but the rule I have made is that she can't have sex until I die! LOL
I can't be sure how I will react when this does happen, but I will try to have a relationship where she feels comfortable enough to confide in me when she has that type of thought.
As a dad, I will probably want to meet the boy she is interested in, as well as his parents. She will not be left to the streets to learn about this!
2007-02-16 10:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by daddyduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. I don't want her to come to me and say I am pregnant and me not even know she is having sex. Yep I do hope she is smart enough to protect herself but I also hope she is smart enough to know that I am here for her always. My mom was the same way.
BTW... girl #3 is on her way so I mean that for all my daughters.
2007-02-13 11:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that she ws having sex in a very committed relationship or marriage. I would hope that she was old enough to deal with the consequences of having sex...like a pregnancy or a std...
2007-02-13 11:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope as a parent to two daughters they would tell me they are at least thinking about it. Also as a parent I hope I can tell when it has happened. Mothers intuition.
2007-02-13 11:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Momma K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby girl is only 5, so I don't want to know for quite some time!!!! Just make sure you are protecting yourself from diseases, and are mature enough to accept responsibility for what u are getting in to... Yeah, talk to your mom too... if you can't trust her ,who can u trust?
2007-02-13 11:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want my daughter to be open with me so that i can take her for birth control and re educate her on consequences of sex (no matter how hard you try to keep them from sex they will usually do whatever they want) i would also make sure she knows that i disapprove of sex for teenagers (especially my daughter) i want to keep her safe
2007-02-13 15:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope that my daughter trusts me enough to tell me so i can help her make the right choice and hopefully not come home knocked up or disease ridden.
2007-02-13 11:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋