ok see bf cheated on me and got a girl pregnant. Well he denies it and now its been two months since the baby arrived. I hate him so much and everyday i regret ever dating him. I don't understand why guys would cheat when they have a girlfriend that has always been there for him when ever one else wasn't. I am just so mad at him right now b/c he want admit to it even though i know its his. I've tried to leave him but he doesn't want to let go. Its like he wants to have both of us and thats not going to happend.
2007-02-13 03:36:35 · 10 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course he wants both of you. If he can have his cake and eat it too, why not?
Look, the guy cheated on you, and you put up with it. He is going to use you as long as you allow it.
As for the question why would he cheat when you have always been there for him,
I don't want to sound mean, but, you did all you could, he just didn't want what you had to offer him.
So leave him while there is still time. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. It doesnt matter if he "doesnt want to let go"
He let go the minute he turned his back on you and went after another woman.
2007-02-13 03:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys cheat? That's been a mystery since the caveman days. Don't allow him to play you because he's proven that he could by having an affair, getting another girl pregnant and lying about it. You deserve so much better than him. Go and enjoy life, pamper yourself, take a class, do some volunteer work, put the focus all on you now, never allow any man to play mind games with you, you continue to be strong and stand your ground.
2007-02-13 03:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! I am so sorry that you are in that situation. That guy is going to regret loosing you in the long run. You have to leave him! You have to be the one to break it off. I mean, do you want that girl and that baby in your life forever!? Can you forgive and love that baby?? I know I couldn't! But is up to you. He seems to be like a looser. He didn't appreciate you. He didn't love you enough! Notice how I still think that he loved you but it wasn't enough. He made a mistake and now he needs to pay for it. You don't deserve/need to carry around the burden of someone else's baby-mama drama. He made his bed, let him lay on it! Kick him to the curb NOW!
2007-02-13 03:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the nature of males to be with as many females as possible. It goes back to prehestoric times, our brain is programmed to that way. A man can be with the most beutiful woman and still seek the company of other woman. I know it sounds stupid, but that is the reallity. There are few man that can resist the temptation, find one.
2007-02-13 03:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by SMK13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some guys are just like that. They take things for granted and don't care about the consequences. Don't waste anymore time on him. Tell him to get out of your life and start being a father to his child.
2007-02-13 03:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guy are like that, want their ice cream and cake but it don't work like that if you don't let him do you like that. it seem like he playing games that you don't have time for so move on, find something better.Now if he willing to change maybe y'all can work it out but that baby will be there so is that something you want to deal with or not? If your not happy and tire, move on with your life and don't look back.
2007-02-13 03:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same position with this guy he has a girlfriend who he in love with and i'm the other girl who he loves to and he takes his girlfriend places then my family and friends be like i saw yo man with keke and so i finally worked up the nerves to tell him stop calling and don't come to my job and lose my number but he keeps calling me to say hello and can i come see you but he messed up big time so he had to go
2007-02-13 03:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately guys get their appetite and want to eat away from home...some make mistakes and get caught, even tho they think they wont get caught....careless little creatures are men....move on hun, don't let this bother you any more.....your a free agent, while he's tied down with a kid.....see this as a lucky escape......
2007-02-13 03:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/C guys are immature and do not realize the good that they have until it's too late.
2007-02-13 03:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rudimentary evolutionary theory -- the traits which produce more reproductive success prevail.
2007-02-13 06:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by bill r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋