its like everythings perfect but when we go out its not the same theres some many problems. No matter if we both have bfs and gfs when we hang out we both know its right. Why is it like that we love each other but we never can seem to make it work. Only when were friends and want to be more is when its perfect why????
2007-02-13 03:35:06 · 17 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say the first problem is you both dating other people.
2007-02-13 03:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you needed the time apart to appreciate one another. You two should talk about it and wonder why it is you can't make the next step. Tell each other what you guy need to hear and not want to hear. If you guys are not meant to be, you have a friendship, but I honestly think you two can take it to the next level. Do it slowly and it begins with a strong friendship and communication.
2007-02-13 12:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your ex was meant to be a friend, not a lover.
Besides, when you are together, you are probably both on your best behavior, to try to get each other back. Then once you are back, the same issues creep up again and again because they have not been dealt with.
2007-02-13 11:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by my little pony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to leave each other alone to get over each other. Unless you are both willing to make whatever sacrifices are necessary to make things work out, and go for some serious relationship counselling to help you both over your issues.
2007-02-13 11:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never going to be perfect but you can try.U should be friends first ALWAYS... that way u will respect each other.... YOU BOTH should be together b/c its what u want.
2007-02-13 11:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are better friends than relationship partners.
Being friends is completely different than being in a romantic relationship with a person.
2007-02-13 11:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
common problem, if its better when you are freinds, then stay friends. its good that you guys are still friends. Time will tell though...just wait and see what happens. dont think too much about it, just let everything happen naturally...
2007-02-13 11:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by ms.staceyann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why have bf/gf if you still love each other? i think you should make i work.... it sounds like love, but you have to work on it
2007-02-13 11:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hang out with my ex for one thing and he knows exactly what it is !
2007-02-13 11:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats like hanging out with someone you dont like, you just want to be there to watch eachother fall
2007-02-13 11:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by thestarhooligan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋