2007-02-13 03:25:19 · 21 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if you didnt find out until after you were really into him... He seemed normal for the first couple months...
He is Bi-Polar.... He wined me and dined me... for 2 whole years... Thinks that he destroyed my life... and our sons... if we were to continue being together... But now, hes into someone else... Why would he say that to me then turn around and go ruin someone elses life?
2007-02-13 03:32:12 · update #1
Hell no.... Maybe if i was dating him way way way before he became crazy then maybe yeah, but not if i met him like that....
Why would you want to put yourself thou that?
2007-02-13 03:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. That is too much to handle in a relationship, and I would be worried about him constantly. I would be a friend to him, but I couldn't be romantically involved. He has issues that need to be resolved. You cannot have a healthy relationship with someone that damaged.
2007-02-13 11:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. I prefer women.. ;)
Of course, it applies to women also.. if a woman is depressed, suicidal, and confused as hell... I'm not interested. It's extra baggage for me, and she'll drag me down into her messed up life. I'll pass - and stay far and wide from this person.
2007-02-13 11:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I actually was a similair situation w/my last boyfriend (my child's father). He was very depressed, but not suicidal. My best advice to you would be to try to be a friend and get him help, then see what develps. B/C if you date this person, you will spend all of your time consumed with trying to make him happy. Trust me, its alot!!!! of work. Best of luck to your friend.
2007-02-13 11:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the world of the lost people
two types of this kind of people
the first kind dont understand the meaning of life and he kill him self quickly
the other type when they understand the meaning of life he become very thankful and he become very joyful to life
so try to help him first and understand him and put him on the right track and show him that life is still good and there are alot to live for :)
2007-02-13 11:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pass....i have battled depression most of my life and at my lowest point i was completely useless and drove most people away
you dont want to be dragged down in the process...if you arent already in a committed relationship with this guy then you dont want to get into one
2007-02-13 11:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with all the no answers . . . I'm not here to save anyone and I just don't need that drama in my life.
2007-02-13 11:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you would be setting yourself up for some misery if you did. Instead of dating him, be his friend. Push him to get the help he needs. Be there for him when he needs you, but guard your heart on this one.
2007-02-13 11:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg. no he could hurt you and make your mood change to depression. I dont think its s good idea. i would say to try to get him help but its proabley not too good of an idea. you can always try though.
2007-02-13 11:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca Martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont want to date a 20 year old who has expressed sucidial tendencies
2007-02-13 11:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋