Women I worked with for several years has stated she is thinking of divorce. We were close at one time, no sex, just lots of flirting. She has ask me what to do.... Is this her way of finding out if I'm interested?
2007-02-13 03:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by mydollar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it is...shes tryin to make sure if she'll have someone to be with if she does get the divorce...be there for her...it seems like she truly does like you...
2007-02-13 03:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥4'10♥so_what 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorces can be messy and she might get pulled in a lot of different directions during this time. She could be testing the waters and poking around to see if you are interested...on the other hand, she could come to you because she knows you well, trusts you and needs a friend.
My advice is to just be her friend for now. If she's interested in starting a relationship with you, she'll probably be upfront and assertive about it to the point where you won't have to guess.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 11:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you ask the ladies but, if nothing but work mates & close some time ago. No children involoved? I leave it up to you as long as the Ex doesn't fight then give her time to diccuss over her avenue and that I take it your still single. And close to thirty
2007-02-13 11:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to go with mingscrew on this one.
She may just need a shoulder to cry on, a ear to hear her out, or she may just be thinking outloud...
She obviously thinks of you in a worthy status to tell you such a thing so you should definitely be a FRIEND first & if your relationship turns into something later on; then so be it.Then If it does; your relationship will mean more b/c of your friendship being there in the first place.
2007-02-13 11:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be her way; but you should be the friend in this
matter, and if in the end she does like you, and you like
her, the chances of a wonderful relationship will be in
the works. After all friends is what a good marriage/relationship
needs.
2007-02-13 11:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Neurotic Fuse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a game, that she is playing, she is checking ur availability, she want u around, yet she is still not divorced. I'd say move on, find ur self someone else.
2007-02-13 11:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by bad person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes known you for a while than maybe she just values your opinion. Give her your opinion in a honest way! Divorce is a huge thing. But maybe after the divorce she may be interested in you, you just never know.
2007-02-13 11:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she may just consider you as a friend and needs a friend right now, don't read to much into it. Just be a friend.
2007-02-13 11:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yeah. she wants to know if you are before she embarasses herself by asking and you turning her down
2007-02-13 11:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep close eye on her she maybe more interested than you think
2007-02-13 11:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by web gurl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋