should i give him a second chance?

Question

im dating a guy, he is very nice to me and takes care of me in many ways, like hold the door for me.. do the grocery with me..

but last week i had to finish marking for my lab(i'm a Teaching Assistant), and it's so much that i can't do it before deadline. he and me were in the library..and he was doing his job..and i asked if he could help me marking(cos it's just mechanically checking multiple choices), he said: oh..i see, that's why you ask me here.. though he said it was just a joke..and he answered that when he finished his job, he could help me..

but until we left, he was doing his own stuff and never really helped me. but he said he wished he would help me when i told him that i have exams and a lot of things...

so i feel like he is just saying that and when it comes to the real things, he doesnt really offer help.. i dont know if it's my problem..that everyone should take care of their own business and dont give your partner any burden..or couple should help and suppo

support each other?

i tell him im busy these days and avoid seeing him..should i still date him and see if he is really nice?

Answer 1

i think you should still date him. and give him a second chance. beause no one is perfect. and to tell you the truth. thats isnt a good reason to want to end it.
The reasons to end it is like cheating, abuse, ignoring, nothing like something small like not helping out. things happen. its not his fault. but anyway i think you should persue him and give it a chance.

Answer 2

You still need more time to determine if he is a good match for you or not. However, you might ask yourself if you are wanting a lot out of him and not being willing to give something back. A person who expects their partner to always give, give and give and not give much back in return may be expecting too much out of the relationship.

To be a healthy relationship, there should be as much giving as receiving by BOTH sides.