I just met a girl and apparently she really likes me, we've only met once and we hardly talked. My friends are preasuring me to buy her a valentines card for tommorrow but im not sure if i like her enough for that. She seems really nice but as i hardly no her i cant make any judgements, and so if i did buy a card and then when i got to know her i decided i wasn't that interested, the card would of sent the message that i am and she might take it the wrong way PLEASE HELP!
2007-02-13 03:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by lee p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey then go slow..no need to give her valentines day card.Rather be her friend and get to know her first.Then u can can propose her any time of the year if u like her.right?
All the best
2007-02-13 03:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by lovable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just get her a very neutral card. Nothing lovey-dovey and at the same time get some of your other friends who are close to you funny cards or something. That way you are not only getting her a card , but you are getting a few friends a card and not showing her any unusual attention. But, if you feel uncomfortable about giving her a card, do not do it!
Good luck!!
2007-02-13 03:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by blueyonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you kinda like her, dude. I mean.. If you don't like her just a bit.. , you won't even be thinking about giving her a Valentines card, right? even It was your friends' idea... but deep within you know that you kinda want to, don't you?
However, since you are not sure about your feelings to her, I'd say.. don't do it. It's okay.. you can send her anything you want when the time is right... when you're sure that you like her.
It's better taking things slowly.
2007-02-13 03:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! ok here is what you do scince im a girl i know. first make sure you get her attention. then you go over and talk to her but don't act nervous act like its normal. then when ever you see her high five her. then talk again another day. then ask if she and her friends want to do something together. NOT A DATE. then start texting if you already haven't. then keep talking. then when you think you are ready go for it!
2016-05-24 05:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you decide anything dont send the card.
2007-02-13 03:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say,
give her a card but write her somthing like...
"i know we just met and all but you seem really nice and i would like to get to know you better
happy valentines day
(your name and number)"
that seems fool proof and nice :]
2007-02-13 03:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by aliciakatherine. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get her anything until you know for sure yoy like her, she will get the wrong message
2007-02-13 03:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, if you don't like her then do not get her anything. don't let your friends tell you how you feel. they just want to put you in an amusing situation for them. don't do it.
2007-02-13 03:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-13 03:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋