They say when you stop looking you will. However when I'm not looking I always get approached by people that there is just no chemistry or interest on my end. What is going on? I have even lowered my standards some. My life is pretty full, everything is great except for the whole love life thing. I'm fine with being single, its just sometimes I wish I had someone to spend my life with.
2007-02-13 02:57:29 · 17 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont have an answer for you, because i just basically asked that same question. it's not that i'm desperately lonely, it's just that i don't feel like there's anybody out there for me... i would love someone to spend the rest of my life with, someone to start a family and buy a house in the suburbs with a white-picket fence and a dog named Rex. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. and that's what saddens me. well, i've chewed your ear off, so again, sorry for not being able to answer your question. but thanks for the internet empathy.
2007-02-13 03:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by johnmfsample 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people that think the type of stuff you are writing are in the same boat. What does "looking" mean to you? Does it mean standing around at a bar actually looking? Does it mean perusing the internet? None of this will really work for you.
What you need to do is take control of the situation. There is certainly nothing wrong with going out and getting what you want. Why not see a random guy out at a bar, or in the mall etc and just approach him and chat him up. Ask him if he wants to grab a cup of coffee. I know this is a something that necessitates you being outgoing, but if you wait for something to come to you, you may have to settle for less than you want. No one should have to do that. Plus, guys LOVE it when they get approached. No guy is going to give you crap because you hit on him...they will be flattered. Trust me, give it a shot.
2007-02-13 11:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is someone for everyone out there. You know what they say, some people are "looking for love in all the wrong places". I think that is the case with you. You should wait till you find someone that you have chemistry and that you like to be around. For now, though, be with some friends and have a good time.
2007-02-13 11:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is a process and everything takes time. When you go looking you'll find the same as if you weren't. Don't lower your standards because of this, stick to your guns because If you want to spend your life with someone, he has to be right.
2007-02-13 11:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have faith that you will find someone. I mean I use to think that I wouldn't ever find anybody and I lowered my standards but you know in the end I found my true love and even though we had our moments I still love him soooooooooooooooo very much and I would do anything to keep him in my life. Just trust me you will find that special someone, but don't lower your standards for anybody because you deserve the nxt to perfect guy and no less
2007-02-13 11:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower your standards. If you settle for someone, then you will be miserable. If you are fine being single, enjoy it. Have fun, go do things with your friends and when you find the one that you are supposed to be with you will thank God that you didn't settle.
2007-02-13 11:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damm, mami, I'm in the same boat...Lonely like a muffuh...Its been about a year, and the only action I've been getting is from a crazy ex-girlfriend....I need some lovin in my life....too bad you live in Texas, if you lived in Miami I'd take you out tommorrow (I know your dreading tommorrow)
2007-02-13 11:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing happens to those who wait. The other saying is "Can't Hurry Love" Have patience...it'll happen when you least except
2007-02-13 11:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure you will find someone. I'm the one that is going to end up alone. Just be happy with who you are and every thing else will end up good for you.
2007-02-13 11:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey the best i can do for you is offer you friendship while you wait for that special someone to come along. Hit me up if you want to talk.
2007-02-13 11:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋