I raise 2 out of the 3 children because the other one was from a different father. I've had both children for many years but one them longer. Now the "mother" has no visitations at this time but when she calls she badgers the children screams at them but they want to talk to her because she's the "mother". She calls and talks to the oldest child for about a minute and the other one she wants to talk to for a very long time. I can't tell her that she can't talk to the children because she'll use this in court. She's always telling the children don't call me momma and putting me down to the children but I'm doing something that she couldn't do is being a momma. She's even as far as telling one of the children that when she gets visitations that she only wants to see her for a couple of hours and give her back because she can't handle her. She just recently told me that it's not her fault she can't see the children but it is she made her bed and now she lay in it.
2007-02-13 02:56:50 · 4 answers · asked by jessie jane 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
As far as the kids go, they know who takes care of them and who doesn't. And when they get older, they will most likely not want to have anything to do with her. They will know what kind of person she is. Just keep on loving them and taking care of them. And give them the best quality life you can. Don't let them see how that woman gets to you either.
2007-02-13 03:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start keeping a log of when she called / how long / who she talked to / what was said / etc. You might need that for court. Do the kids treat you well? If so, they probably know that their mother is a piece -- they will understand more than you give them credit for. As long as you are a loving parent, you have nothing to fear. Talk to your husband and have him contact his attorney regarding the wording used to the kids. If ever threats occur -- contact the police immediately. That way it is on record and can be used in court -- keep copies of these handy too. Good luck sweetie and take care of those kids.
2007-02-13 11:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by GP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's considered hostile parenting on her part and the court won't take it lightly. She can lose whatever privaledges she currently has by doing that. Record it thoroughly and speak with a family lawyer who can advise you the best course of action to take. It's not healthy for the children and it makes family life difficult for them.
2007-02-13 11:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by tylw85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get caller ID and when she calls, don't pick up.
2007-02-13 11:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋