I had sex with this guy 3 times.. and yeah.. we were just close friends. I wasn't ready to get into any relationship yet. I told him about it and he understood. He was a nice guy. He told me that he really liked me and that he very doted on me.. but yeah.. Friendship was all i wanted.
It's been a while that we haven't seen each other. I kinda miss him. I'm thinking about him most nights before sleep... thinking about the way we made out.. the way he kissed me.., the cuddling.., his smile..
I don't know.
Am I in love with him? or am just in love with the sex?
2007-02-13 02:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by Liv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My question is: Is the sex good? I mean if it is then there is a chance it might be just the sex, but then again if you would prefer that ya'll cuddled and not do anything sexual but just spend time together then it's not just the sex. I think that if you haven't already told him how you feel that you need to tell him a.s.a.p.
2007-02-13 02:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you often spend nights thinking about him and he seems to always be on your mind, chances are that you have feelings for him. Since you guys were friends before, you already know a lot about him, so you know what you like about him. I think in your case, you have feelings for him that finally came out when you had sex with him.
2007-02-13 11:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said you only constantly think of the sex you had with him I'd say just the sex but since you state that you also think of his smile and the cuddling I think you may like him more then you first thought.
2007-02-13 10:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some more time before you even go into the love thing, but enjoy the sex in the meantime.
2007-02-13 11:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just miss him period. It doesn't have to mean that you love him. Maybe you should go out with this guy without having sex, and really explore your feelings.
2007-02-13 11:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you can't stop thinking about him you are in love. Considering you are questioning whether you are in love with him or not you are probably just in love with the sex.
2007-02-13 10:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i think its the sex since its when ur alone and before u go 2 sleep
2007-02-13 10:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you miss things he did out of love or the booty?
2007-02-13 10:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your a guy in disguise...its all about the sex!
welcome to the club!!!
2007-02-13 11:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i think u love both him and his thang
2007-02-13 11:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by SHAKESUMTIN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋