I recently found out that he has been chatting with this girl... She gave him her phone number... We are currently seperated, and as far as I know we are giving it one last try... How do I keep him from calling her? What can I do? Women, i know there are some of you out there that can come up with something... Please help?!
2007-02-13 02:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish there was an easy answer for your question. Unfortunately, you can't stop anyone from doing what they want. I think your relationship has come to a point where you need to evaluate what is best for YOU, and maybe he is not. It's not going to be easy. I just ended a 13 year relationship with my husband. It has been one of the hardest things I have done but it was in MY best interest. Do you really need to compete for his affection? Surely, you value yourself more than that. If he is willing to prove himself to you- that's great but make him understand that some things will not be tolerated. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 02:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's interested in giving it one last try, then he will not be dating other women. If he is, then you should stop wasting your time trying to work it out with him, because you'll be the ONLY one doing the work. You shouldn't have to fight to make him not date other people. That should be a GIVEN, and if he can't do that, then the relationship is unsalvageable. Talk to him, and ask him if he wants to work things out or not. If he does, then let him know that there is no dating others allowed. If he won't do that, then move on.
2007-02-13 10:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok now I have never been married, but I know enough to know that If you have to try to stop your husband or boyfriend from dating another women, THEN HE IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!! If he claims he loves you and wants to give it one more try then he would absolutely not be disrespecting you and excepting numbers from other women. Obviously he is not worried about you or the relationship if he is taking time to talk to other women, that's all ima say about that!
2007-02-13 10:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by badma'amajama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him from calling. If he wants to call he will. If he does call, then its a sign to you that he does not want to work on things and you should move on. Why is he chatting with other girls online? He doesn't have to do this. He must want to do this. The best advice I can give to you is to sit down and talk with him truthfully, telling him you and only you can be number one in his life and he has to stop talking to women online. Listen to his response carefullly and you should be able to tell if he's telling you th truth or not. Catch him once......shame on him. Catch him twice.....shame on you. If he's not a one women man, then move on. You cannot keep giving him chances.
2007-02-13 10:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by DNA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-13 11:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by brandi_shae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, you're giving it one last try and he is getting phone numbers online.
You're wasting your time.
Let go and move on.
tc
2007-02-13 10:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a deal breaker... better for him to be out of your life than allow him to play you...
you deserve to be happy and you are worth it...
don't lose your respect over this guy...you should not have to be # 2 or settle..
2007-02-13 10:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would threaten to cut his thang off if he dont stop and i would locate dat girl, and beat her *** real good, and make her promise to stay away from wats urs
2007-02-13 10:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by SHAKESUMTIN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im racking up bad karma, im gonna leave this one alone.
2007-02-13 10:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋