its probably a stupid question but i'm trying to get my friend an answer. She thinks that if she is not ready that her guy will leave her and i told her that he wouldn't. how do i make her understand that she has a great b/f and he will understand what she is going through?
2007-02-13 02:44:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like your name btw! Being a guy, I would wait if the girl says to me "she's not ready." There's plenty of time! If the guy doesn't wait, move on, there's plenty more where he came from! Good luck!
2007-02-13 02:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it depends on a lot of factors, actually. The first one is age: how old is your friend? If she is under 18, then she shouldnt worry about a guy who doesnt want to be with her because she doesnt put out. Second, if she's a virgin, it's a completely different story. a man understands when a girl has never had sex that the first time could be scary (because it is for guys sometimes too). if she just doesnt want to have sex with him because they haven't been going out that long, he should just wait it out. but thats just me talking. she should ask him. or at least give him favors besides sex. mutual favors aside from sex can strengthen a relationship. especially if she knows how to slob on his knob like it's corn on the cob.
2007-02-13 02:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by johnmfsample 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how she'll know what he's looking for from her. If he's only after the sex, then he'll leave. If he likes her for who she is, and wants a long-term relationship, then he'll wait for her.
Tell your friend that she shouldn't put out because she's afraid that he'll leave her. Being afraid and clingy is no way to go through life.
2007-02-13 02:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, but that's because I would never enter a relationship that might lead to intimacy if I wasn't prepared to wait until she was ready. It means I have to have real feelings with her if I want to go that far. If this is the case with your friend, then she shouldn't have to worry, but if all her wants her for is that one small thing, she should leave him.
2007-02-13 02:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he leaves her it is because he was only looking to use her. he may like her but he is LOOKING for the BENEFITS. If he leaves then he is definitely showing that he doesn't care about her or her feelings and his physical pleasure is more important to him that her emotions. Put him to the test, see if he sticks around. And don't sell yourself out by giving it up to him just to keep him. It would be very stupid to ask to be used like that. You want a guy who is going to respect you and your feelings and set aside his own for you.
2007-02-13 02:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by t2ensie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A selfish BOY will not understand. The smarteest rule a women/girl can have is NOT to have sex with selfish boys.
A man or aspiring MAN would not pressure to begin with. A real understnad understands that sex leads to children and that real men don't have sex with girls that are not qualified to have children or be a mom.
Old fassion but as true as it gets.
2007-02-13 02:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its rape for 2 causes She change into inebriated therefor unable to make a call in sound ideas (so a definite couldve even been rape...see you later as he change into quite more effective sober) 2-SHE reported NO!she in uncomplicated words has to say it once for it to be rape,it doesnt count number if HE change into "inebriated" or no longer shes no longer the single which compelled herself on him
2016-10-17 06:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by svendsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy but fr. what iv seen , if the guy truly wants to b with u hell wait. but b careful, cause they could just say they will wait ,meanwhile their out their cheating. but please if ur not ready to have sex then dont its not worth trying to keep a guy over. and b careful they can pressure u in to it . so if ur not ready then DONT ok.
2007-02-13 02:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he leaves he was not worth having.
2007-02-13 02:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave her
2007-02-13 02:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋