Ok. added to the other question heres a more detailed one. :]
It feels like we dont apprieciate eachother. We joke around when we call eachother names and stuff like that. But, when he trys to flirt with me he ends up hurting me. He sqeezes my leg or something and it hurts!! And we get jealous over the dumbest things ever! If i have friends over or im with friends he wont talk to me or call me or anything!! And when we are(jealous)...we smart something off and get in an arguement!! Also sometimes it seems like our realtionship is a competiton. See whos better and who can impress someone or something better than the other.
Um...takin eachother forgranted. see we've broke up once but that was like what less than 24 hours because he felt scared and needed me. So were back together but all the problems before the breakup are here again! Oh and one time he tried to set rules. like dont call me all the time dont buy eachother stuff, those kind of rules. Im so confused. Help me!!!!
2007-02-13 02:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by Brunette_Chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend sounds like he's the one whose confused. Reading over what you said, he sounds very insecure and leaning towards the abusive/controlling side. And calling each other names is simply not acceptable in a healthy relationship. You're suppose to build each other up, not tear each other down. What really concerns me is this squeeze-ya-til-hurts business. Why would he flirt with you then try to hurt you? Your boyfriend sounds sadistic. That's not normal. Also you gave him another chance, but he comes in and starts running the place like he's a parent on a powertrip and you're a little kid. The scales are not balanced in his mind. My final diagnosis, let him go. His attitude will only worsen with time. He doesn't cherish you, nor the 2nd chance you've given him, and based on how's he's reacted after you took him back, he figures you for a weak person who will serve him on a whim. Let him be scared by himself.
2007-02-13 02:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Bombay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a try. It is Love, with teething trouble. I think there is a bit of immaturity too. Keep it going. You both must be teens. Learn that love is more enjoyable in giving, sacrificing and comprmising. You both want each other but do not want to give up your selfish attitudes for the sake of your relation. That is the problem. In order to get your relation strong, you may have to sacrifice some of your whims and fancies. Try that and you will become more close. Learn to give than to take. Dont you try to make him the way that you want him to be, instead, try to change yourself the way that he wants you to be. If both try this, there will be no more problem. Good luck.
2007-02-13 02:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by atom45 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's a control-freak and it could end up hurting you emotionally and physically if you don't get out from under his controlling ways. Find someone else and forget him
2007-02-13 02:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl... leave him... If he is playing with your emotions do you think is worth it????? If you don't want to leave him try to talk to him and put the cards on the table...Love is not a competition, love is not jealousy or being scared... Love is way better than this..
2007-02-13 02:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The two of you need to mature a great deal more before taking this relationship any further.
2007-02-13 02:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you and boyfriend there need to grow up. do you like the drama and insults? Forget him and concentrate at school. Put all this wasted energy to good use and better your grades
2007-02-13 02:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world are you confused?! You're relationship with this guy is a complete mess!
Move on! Open your eyes!
2007-02-13 02:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would dump him he needs to treat you like a queen and if you don't get that from him he doesn't deserve you and he shouldn't pinch you like that either and whats up with the rules if my man set rules i would, i don't know but it wouldn't be pretty good luck
2007-02-13 02:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by cold skiing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you really need to sit down with eachother and have a serious talk.
2007-02-13 02:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-13 02:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Bonnie T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋