So this guy i've been friendds with for a while just recently started wanting to hang out more and i think he wants to be more than friends. I've only gone out with him once but not really as a "date". He just asked me to supper for Vtines day, so I said yes but do i need to get him a gift? what if he gets me somthing and i don't have anything for him? thanks for any help!!
2007-02-13 02:39:33 · 16 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't really expect anything, unless it's known that you're in a relationship...if he does give him a gift tell him about how much stress it was causing you, not know what to do...this is actually the cutest thing you could do...and just letting him know that you thought about it that much will be more than enough...it sounds like the feelings are mutual, that's a gift in itself...if you really like him though (and he obviously like you if he's askingyou out on v-day) then give a chance (or more than one) to kiss you
2007-02-13 02:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I obviously don't know what your relationship is like with this fellow, but I would imagine if you don't have much of a relationship..or if it's a new relationship...I would suspect that it wouldn't be necissary to buy him a gift (and in all reality, Valentine's day is a hallmark holiday...you don't have to go all out buying gifts and stuff just because the holiday aisle at walmart tells you that you have to)
If you truely want to get him a gift, simply because you like him, maybe buy him a cd? Something small...even something that you would just pick up for a friend. Just to show him you care. And hell even if he doesn't give you a gift, hopefully he'll get the idea that you kinda like him.
These things are always tricky. If you decide not to get him a gift, and he gets you something..just smile and say thank you. If he's worth anything he'll understand and will be happy that he suprised you. Your company for the evening should be gift enough. And if you really feel bad about it, offer to pay for dinner or take him out to coffee or something.
Good luck deary. I feel your pain. lol :)
2007-02-13 02:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation with a "friend." I'm thinking, that he may send some flowers to the office or something like that. I'm not sure if I need to get him a gift though. So I think I will get something small - just a token. Then I will play it by ear and if the situation arises, I have it covered. If it doesn't - well, I can always save it for later.
2007-02-13 02:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe you need to buy him a gift. He asked you too dinner, you said yes and i think that's all there is to it.He may have a rose for you,(it is Valentines Day) but that doesn't mean you need to have something .You said you have been good Friends, if you feel you need to take something with you, I'm sure you can find a nice card for a good Friend.
2007-02-13 02:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if he does not get you something and you have? Hmnnn ...my guess is you have nothing loose in getting him something. If he goes over the top and has a great gift for you, no worries; you'll have a long while where you can make up for it.
enjoy the date
2007-02-13 02:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by SurajM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting too much pressure on yourself.....my suggestion..Live in the moment....enjoy who you are as a person and he'll follow suit....you gotta be confident and luv yourself first.....all other things will fall in place.....and I am speaking from a man's perspective!
BTW....about the gift...you know the situation better than anyone of us, you know the individual....trust your own judgement...you'll be a better person for it in the long run!
2007-02-13 02:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Brewmaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy. If you just like him get a card..and if you really do like him and want to give him a hint of a relationship...get him a gift !
2007-02-13 02:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by dytrid71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get him a gift then. Just get him something that he likes
2007-02-13 02:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't feel hurt not getting anything for Valentines, since it is thought to be more for the girls. Just be sweet to him for taking you to dinner.
2007-02-13 03:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants more than your friendship. Give him a card and a small box of chocolate, because I can bet he'll be giving you something. But don't give it unless he has something for you.
Have fun! ;)
2007-02-13 02:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋