me and my boyfriend be goin out for 2 years now..but lately he be tellin me that he tired of me. i cry a lot everynight befor i go to bed cuz i fell my hearts breaking and he always screams at me and tell me to stop cryin because he dont wanna be with a cry baby... everything has to be his way...he says that the realtionship is goin bad cuz ima psyco gurl cuz i call him too much..but he never call me at all.... all he wants to do is come to my house have sex, eat and sleep, is hard for me to get a kiss out of him... when we have sex daz the only time i can kiss him as much as i want... what should i do? please i really need advice...
2007-02-13 02:33:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship is something that both people in it should enjoy and get something out of. If a relationship makes you cry yourself to sleep every night, then it's probably a safe bet that what you get out of this relationship is hurt and pain, and that's not what it's suppose to be about.
In your eyes, he may seem really great in spite of all those things you mentioned. I'm sure there's a part of him that is great. But if he's not going to share that with you and yell at you, then it's probably another safe bet that that you don't need to be around him. If he says he's tired of you but is still hanging around to have sex, eat, and sleep at "your" place, then it sounds like he's just using you.
I know tomorrow is Valentine's Day and everyone is suppose to be all loving and sweet to their significant other, but you need to make a stand and not let this guy hurt you any more.
Is this your fault? I don't know, I wasn't there. I'm sure there were some things you could've done better, but that's true about everyone. But if this guy yells at you and tells you that he's tried of you, and seems to just leech off of you emotionally and sexually, then it sounds like he did a heck of a lot more wrong than you probably ever could. Don't beat yourself up over a guy acting like a jerk.
I know leaving someone that you care about is hard, but if this person doesn't care about you on the same level that you do, then they shouldn't be around taking advantage of you. You deserve better than that.
2007-02-13 03:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by CR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon you are not happy.... what should you do?? this is what you do... change the locks to your house.. and change the locks to your heart... it doesn't take a lot to say.. GOODBYE... he is treating you as a welcome mat.. and you are letting him.
Can't you see what he is doing to you.. he is using you for sex and he is expecting to no be trouble with you so in some words is like he is using you as a toilet and then he flushed you and go by his life.. don't let him do that. if he can offer more than sex then find someone who can give you the whole package.. sex love friendship companion all of this things are envolved in a relationship and out of all those things he just giving you the one that is conviniece for him SEX get an vibrator till you find a good man there is nothing wrong with that I have one.. after all that is all he is a VIBRATOR WITH A STANK ATTITUDE... get rid of him is my adivice.. good luck.
2007-02-13 10:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with him....this relationship sounds like crap to me....
he is using you, you shouldnt have to go thru this....find a better guy
2007-02-13 10:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋