not nescesarilly now maybe when you were younger but when a guy looks at a women his first thoughts if they are considered attractive by that man are at the least basic[ie] want her[being polite here as theres kids here too..man thing, do women look at us in the same way or is it. i find him attractive and want to sleep with him once i get to know him type thing.just curious its a man thing...thinks with his todger thing.do women think that way.
2007-02-13 02:27:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks u have pretty much won my argument men cant help themselve see attractive women want booty.and im male btw.sorry ladies we cant help it.biological thing i think the need to spread seed perhaps.
2007-02-13 02:52:06 · update #1
Yes. I want to get to know a person first before that thought enters my mind. I have to like his personality and values before that issue would be considered.
2007-02-13 02:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think any woman that says they don;t look at men in the same kind of way would not be 100% truthful! I know we always say how it is personality that counts, and although personality is of course important, you have to like something about the way that person looks to start the initial conversation with them. Could you honestly wake up every day for the rest of yopur life next to a person that you had no physical attraction to?
And as for whether we look at a man in the 'wanting' them way - then yes, I would honestly say we do. Maybe not to the extent a guy would - but yes. I know there is a guy who wallks past my work window every day and I definately have those thoughts about him!!!
2007-02-13 02:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by TulaBox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I met my husband I used to go out with someone if I found them funny or nice looking but most importantly I liked them to be intelligent. Sleeping with them never entered my head at that stage. I think that is the same for a great many women today.
2007-02-13 02:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by ☞H.Potter☜ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes..
Personally i look at men and think they are attractive but do not instantly want to jump on them.. Have to get to know them... and thats the truth!
I find personalities and confidence more attractive than looks and that is something you dont get out of someone from looking at them across the street!
2007-02-13 02:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times i'll see a guy i find attractive and i don't care what happens next i want him.
but other times i'll think ok so he's attractive but surely their's more to him than looks and want to get to know him first.
i think women can think with both body and mind when it come's down to men it's just a matter of witch onewe listen to at the tme
2007-02-13 02:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes, Personality then Bum.
But have to be in a 'serious' relationship before
anything physical.
Think its good that men do sow their seed.
Cos when I got married first time I was very
young (17) and my new husband didn,t have
a clue what to do with it!!
So I wasn,t married for very long.
2007-02-16 23:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he is attractive, but not necessarily whether or not I would *cough* with him.
I always find that people are more attractive if you have a connection (not a physical connection), it would be more about whether or not I want to continue chatting to him or not - I will talk to pretty much anyone once.
2007-02-13 02:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer do they make me laugh, and actually look at me when I am talking instead of at my boobs! someone you can have an actual conversation on a variety of issues ranging from sport to literature, it is no good having a good looking chap if he is just window dressing as the relationship will be limited otherwise
2007-02-13 02:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Chani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men I look at and just want to "sleep" with and others I feel like I want to get to know and then "sleep" with them.
2007-02-13 02:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be in the back of my mind but what I really look for is, 'Will I enjoy being with him.' If I do, sex may follow but it is not the main thing on my mind.
2007-02-13 02:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋