A man in his 20's who has only been on a handful of dates and has never had a real relationship?
2007-02-13 02:07:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should start eating right and working out for an hour and a half a day if you want to look good. Or just date girls within your limits.
You get into life what you put into it.
2007-02-13 02:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, your not doomed to a life of despair because your overweight and lacking in social skills.. Both of those can be corrected.. The weight can come off gradually and in the meantime take mini steps socially.. don't bite off too much otherwise you'll be back to square one again. Women like men who can dance who are funny, honest, reliable, caring and who don't cheat. I'm sure you have some good traits already. One way to kill two birds with one stone is join a gym.. start doing cardio on the treadmills.. Lot's of women there doing the same thing. You can exercise and start small talk about exercise... Ask questions too.
2007-02-13 02:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 03:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he should. Why should he have to hold back on having a wonderful relationship just because he is overweight and has bad social skills. No one is perfect and that doesn't hold anyone back from getting into the dating world.
2007-02-13 02:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lia Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah why not. Theres someone out there for everyone. But it would help to work on your social skills. You can work on your weight to attract more people. There are people out ther who dont mind an overweight guy, but face it most people dont. So it not thet there isnt anyone out there for you. Because there is, these things just lower the amount of people who might be interested.
2007-02-13 02:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should! I've always felt there was someone out there for everyone! I'm overweight too but I found the love of my life. I've got horrible social skills too. I'm shy, quiet..afraid of confrontation and rejection. The internet is a wonderful way for people like us to meet people. No pressure you can truly be yourself. :) Good luck I know you'll find someone
2007-02-13 02:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give up! But, you may consider increasing your chances by getting healthy and learning better social skills. Take pride in yourself and the rest will fall into place. Good luck - you are still young and can correct this!
2007-02-13 02:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are lacking self esteem. You need to have more self esteem and not worry about how many dates you have been on and if your weight is bothering you then do something about it, try dieting and exercising. I am sure if you think about it you are a nice person on the inside and people enjoy being around you.Be positive and don't give up.
2007-02-13 02:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your telling me because your over weight you cant get a date, listen thats not true, from experience i go 6'1, 200pds, right now used to be close to 300 pds, women would look sideways at me so i did myself a favor and lost this weight , not just for women but for the health reasons as well, now i have ne trouble getting a date,overweight men can get dates, but the % rate is not very good, and when your over weight your self confidence is not very high, believe me youll feel a lot better about your self, Good luck.
2007-02-13 02:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be asking whether this person should try to stay healthy and also improve his personality? Having bad social skills is not an issue but knowing it and not try to do something about it, is.
Why is trying to be a better person not worth trying?
2007-02-13 02:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋