Lately my girlfriend had been complaining about how I am always under her. But she broke up with me because she said she believe that I still have feelings for my ex girlfriend,because we came to an agreement that I wouldn't talk to her anymore, because of my exgirlfriend immaturity.
2007-02-13 02:00:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..I hate that, been there done that. Man from experience don't let it hold you down, don't wonder why she dumped you, look at it as her loss and problems. Just cause someone may say they feel you are in love with someone else or cheating usually is their case. If she was complaining about you being under her, it's obvious that she was trying to find reasons to leave you. Probably in the long run she'll get mad at you and prolly tell you that she was cheating or something done. Don't be hurt, began to search for friends, have fun, life is too short to wonder about one person..... I have many friends that died at an early age 17-19..... go on with your life and don't keep wondering why, just move on, it's the best thing and you'll be happy.
2007-02-13 02:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gentle G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can feel where your heart is. So if you are truly over your ex then show her that you are. She is trying to tell you something and you are not really paying too close to her. you know the saying about when girls say no we mean yes?... well that is true in some cases. Communication is the key. No matter how you get mad at each other just show her you are not leaving and you will always be there for her. she want something from you like attention maybe. But she needs not to be selfish. She must also think about you and how you feel. Just because guys don't show emotions that don't mean it is not there but she needs to just sit down and talk. just let what is in her mind out and not hold back. The past is the past just try to create a new future with her and to her the same with you.
2007-02-13 10:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cici 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl probably feels insecure when shes with you, and most likely she doesn't trust you either. Most women don't like the fact that their man is still conversing with their ex. FOR WHAT?? There's no such thing a "We're just friends now, We don't have any feelings for each other anymore....blah, blah blah" Cut ALL ties with your ex if you want your girl back. I use to feel like my man was always up under me too, but that was just because I was talking to other guys and I felt like he was in the way. Now that I don't converse with those other guys, my bf and I are doing better. I'm not saying that's what she's doing. Just talk to her and try to get an understanding of where she's coming from. Remember to give her SOME space, but not too much.
Good Luck
2007-02-13 10:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you talk to your ex after your agreement? If so then that was the reason she walked out. Ex's are one thing that can ruin a relationship fast. If your partner or spouse is uncomfortable with you talking or being around your ex then you have to respect that or you will lose them. If your in a situation where there are children involved with the ex and you have to communicate then only talk to the ex when your spouse is around and make sure she knows you want her and only her
2007-02-13 10:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was obviously looking for a reason to get out of the relationship. if she was complaining about you always being under her then you wasn't giving her any space to just be herself. Any good relationship needs some kind of space between the couple. You don't have to smother someone to make sure they are in love with you.
2007-02-13 10:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by superstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is obvious that u still have not completely forgotten ur ex...n u went in for a relationship with this girl...so first i think u must put behind ur past...y do u still love a girl who has forgotten u n moved ahead in her life.(that is ur ex) ...so now take some time alone n try to move on in life...
2007-02-13 10:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by purple_spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So try getting on top of her for a change and stop making her do all the work!
2007-02-13 10:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she broke up with you because she believed you still has feelings for the other girl... and that's not cool man!
2007-02-13 10:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha sucks for you... you get a new girlfriend
2007-02-13 10:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by danceislife47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new gf
2007-02-13 10:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋