How do you tell a guy to quit bringing up past relationships as well as past "experiences"?? Especially in detail......I know he likes me alot and I like him alot but it bothers me.....thank you...
2007-02-13 01:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg this happened to me in my last realationship...VERY annoying and frustrating b/c you kno they like you alot, and it shows they wanna be honest and arent scared to share things with you, but at the same time its like...ok buddy ive heard enuff about her, lets talk more about us. you ahve to just tell him that it bothers you. tell him you appreicate his honesty and you know that he doesnt feel anything for her anymore, but its not a turn on to talk about ex girlfriends all the time. it makes you feel uncomfortable and almost like you have to compare yourself with her, you shouldn't have to deal with that. have a chat. or you could goo the bitchy way about it and talk about one of your exs alot and make them see how you feel...it may turn into fight, but then you can always make up :O)....good luck
2007-02-13 02:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not comfortable talking about past relationships
2007-02-13 02:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and explain to him that it bothers you when it talks about his past relationships a little to much..... that he might not be over them.... communication is the key to a successful relationship
2007-02-13 02:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him noe how u feel... being honest is wat a relationship is all bout rite.. and u gotta be comfortable.. so relax and be straight wit him.. let him noe that it's bothering u and that u dont wish to noe all these 'stuffs' coz it wil affect the relationship..
2007-02-13 02:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by fizadora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must not like you that much or he wouldnt be doing that that means he still thinks about them
2007-02-13 02:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋