me and my gf are on a 2 week break.we are both confused about how we feel but i think i still like her and i dont want to do the ''just friends'' crap, but i dont want to start falling for her and get hurt and i dont know how she feels because we agreed no contact maybe it will be easier if i just ended it now but.... i dont know help??
2007-02-13 01:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw i said the no contact thing coz i thought it might help
2007-02-13 01:55:44 · update #1
Yes i would just end it now.On a break isnt a good sign anyway so why prolong the misery.
2007-02-13 01:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having a break is just the cowardly way of breaking up. It means you are both unsure about being alone but don't want to be together so you're just having a trial separation so if things are crap, you can get back together. If you wanted to be with her, you'd know for sure. The fact that you're doubting it as well as the fact you're on a break with no contact for 2 weeks suggests to me this relationship is over. Don't waste any more of your time and energy worrying and stressing over a relationship that's finished either way. Finish it for definite and move on.
2007-02-13 09:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest if you only 'think' you still like her it really isn't a good sign.Also its very hard to be 'just friends' with someone if you've been together as a couple.Just never really works.
The fact that you are on a 'break' really isn't a good thing.By ignoring eachother for two weeks all you are doing is making it easy for you two to split.
So i suggest you really think about wether you want to be with her and if you do you must end the silence and start talking with eachother to resolve your differences.
If not then just let her go and stop wasting both your time.
good luck
2007-02-13 10:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by stuart s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets do some math
on a break + no contact + only think you still like her =end it completely you should at least be sure of your feeling before you get back together or not
2007-02-13 10:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done it, read the T shirt. It does not work going back believe me , the just freinds crap is just crap as it is not the same as before, even if you go back together it could happen again.
Good luck my friend!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 09:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by tony k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the point of her saying no contact is she wants you to come crawling back to her so wat you do is just call her up or do something roamantic for her and jsut tell her how you feel about it and if your luck enough then she just might take you back.
2007-02-13 09:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Amber N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only think you still like her then give up now, go your separate ways and enjoy life!
2007-02-13 10:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by jacee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break is a bad sign....move on.
2007-02-13 09:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Alicat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you loved each other you wouldn't be having this break your either together or your not
2007-02-13 11:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go brassing!
2007-02-13 09:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Shaft69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋