well my boyfriend is a very mean and very sefcenter man i have been with hime for 11 years but recently he was in a fire and i thought he was going to die so i went back to him thinking he would had change send he come so close to death but he is the same hateful a** hole he has always been but he going to get alot of money would u stay and get what is yours for all the pain he has put u trew over the years or would u just leave and say the hell with him
2007-02-13 01:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would leave leave leave. He has treated you horribly for so long and he knows he can get away with it otherwise you would have left already. You will knock him for six by leaving and maybe then he'll come begging after you but don't give him the satisfaction. Get away from him and maybe move to a new place where you can start afresh and not have any memories of him hanging over you everytime you go out. Good luck and be strong otherwise you'll be in the same place in twenty years time. You might want to think about having some counselling as you'll be very angry deep down and it is not a good thing to have that hidden as it will affect you more in the long run.
2007-02-13 01:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Estrella Brillante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no mean man is every going to change,even if they have a near death experience . so you would give up a great new life without this guy just so that you might have money,you need to wake up and smell the coffee,no amount of money would make me stay with a guy like that ,get out while you still can.
2007-02-13 01:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by plopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years. how the hell did you do that. I mean if you put up with him for that long I guess you should stay. Why not? Plus you def. deserve some of that cash.
2007-02-13 01:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason you are staying with him is for the money, then you are a no better than a street walker. Money does not buy happiness.
2007-02-13 01:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by BeBu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave.
I wouldn't put up with another minute of him no matter how much he is going to get.
It's not worth it.
2007-02-13 01:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah leave why waste your time? And what makes you think he'll share his money, you said he was self centered
2007-02-13 01:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that horrid what makes you think he'll give you any of the money?
2007-02-13 01:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gold digger, get out
2007-02-13 01:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by ace_112121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave
2007-02-13 01:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋