I love this guy, yes love. But he dosn't love me. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But how can I if he dosn't love me back??
2007-02-13 01:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by chattergirl93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.! If the guy isn't feeling you, you can't spend your life and time thinking about a life with him. How sick and senseless is that? You have to have something more going on in your life. If this is the way you think, this guy may not even want someone like that. Check yourself, please!!!
Put yourself in the opposite situation. Would you want someone planning a life with you that you weren't interested in?
2007-02-13 01:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on..Seriously I have been there and it hurts like hell. I dont think you ever really get over it but you shouldnt dwell on it either. I can tell you it gets a little easier, but if it is really love the feelings will never go away. If it is meant to be, you two will end up together. Unrequited love is the most painful and lasts the longest. Just focus on other things and I promise you will find someone else who does love you back.
2007-02-13 09:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you then you shouldn't try to be with him if all he's going to do is take you for granted and think he can use you because your so in love and would do anything for him. Right, I know I've been there done that and I had to realize that he wasn't good for me, because he put me through a lot of s**t that I didn't need. So I moved on and found someone who loves me back and it won't be easy it's going to be a hard process. So good luck and I hope everything works out.
2007-02-13 09:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are meant to be together then things will happen in their own time. But you can't make someone love you, you just need to quit worrying about it and move on with your own life. Things will happen when the time is right, he may or may not be the guy for you, only time will tell. Just don't put everything on the line for this one guy in hopes that you will get to spend the rest of your life with him. That will just lead to heartache and disappointment.
2007-02-13 09:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone doesn't love u and u know it, than your not accepting reality, and that can emotionally hurt u. if someone doesn't love u there is no future, as it takes two to for a relationship to work, eventually if u stay in this your going to feel terribly dumped on if u never get anything back from that person. we have to accept the truth about life, and grow up if we don't we can create alot of pain for ourselves that didn't need to be.
2007-02-13 09:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go on with your life. We have alot of choices in our lives but we do not get to choose what other people want. If they have made it clear they don't love you then you just have to back away and let time take the hurt away....its hard...but time always make it better...you wont forget but time does heal the hurt and pain you feel when you think of that person.
2007-02-13 09:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone.
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2007-02-13 09:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by om 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could go emo and hate everyone because someone rejected you. Thats what you kids do nowadays anyway, join the rest of the gang.
2007-02-13 09:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to move on. you can't force someone to love you, you have your whole life to find the person you love, sometimes people confuse infactuation with love.
2007-02-13 09:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is true , "how can you".? Stop wasting your time on someone who does not love you back. You might be wasting precious time on finding the one that will love you back.
2007-02-13 09:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋