am dark, with a job and good looking but i still find it difficult to get a spouse.can somebody tell me why
2007-02-13 01:21:12 · 11 answers · asked by Chychy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are suffering from what ''we'' call Ideal Guy Syndrome (IGS). Your kinda guy to take for a spouse is hard to find nowadays. Thats why most girls wished they had not married. Keep searching, hopefully you will meet one but know that most over 30 guys usually had kid before or divorced, so your clock is ticking at 26 you match with guys from 28 upwards coz they mature, I am 25 and my matches are in the 22 and downwards
2007-02-13 01:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound the kind of a perrson men would compete to fall on to. I, for once, would certainly do!
But, Probably you are self-centred and most likely too much in love with yourself! Be more social, considerate, friendly, open minded.
Change your attitude!
All the best!
2007-02-13 09:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so young. You have plenty of time and dont feel pressured. These people getting married at 20 are idiots and will probaly end up divorced. You will find someone when you arnt looking.
2007-02-13 09:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by annonymus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been happily unmarried for many many yrs
it took me one bad marriage 8 yrs of being alone and 37 total yrs to find my mr right
you will find him
just stop looking when the time is right it will happen
live life and enjoy when you least expect it he will pop up
2007-02-13 09:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase you are still looking for the right person......they'll come along one day just don't jump at the first one unless they're the one for you.
2007-02-13 09:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have time im 28 and single
2007-02-13 09:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your heart just doesn't want to be committed to some one yet.
2007-02-13 09:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by kaydra k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o your good.
i know a girl just like that, i work with her shes so funny.
your probly just being impossible right now, but you dont know it.
2007-02-13 09:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me baby
2007-02-13 09:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by blockzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are an introvert type of person.
2007-02-13 09:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋