My ex girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago. She told me at first that she needed some time to think because she wasn't sure about whether or not she loved me but then she broke up with me. I know she still cares about me but she won't asnwer her phone when I call and won't reply when I text her. I know that if we were to talk we could work things out. Why is she giving me the silent treatment and what do I need to do to get her to talk to me?
2007-02-13 01:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First usually when one person walks out they have made up their mind to leave already and the just needing time to think is just a phrase to not hurt your feelings to much. I know its hard to end a relationship when you still want to stay but we do not get to choose what other people want and if she isn't returning your calls its because she doesn't want to talk to you and she knows if she does your still going to stay attached. Believe it or not she is actually doing you a favor by not talking because its pretty clear she had made up her mind to move on and she doesn't want you clinging to a hope that it will be better. My advice to you is to stop the phone calls and stop the text messages totally. If you haven't heard from her in 2 weeks after you stop then you have to face the fact that its over and move on with your life.
2007-02-13 01:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, her saying she needed some time to think was obviously her way of letting you down "easy". If she is refusing to talk to you, it's because she does NOT want to. Harsh? Hard to accept? YES. But the truth is, she doesn't care for you in a bf/gf way and you need to stop making attempts to contact her, let the relationship go and move on.
By continuing to make repeated attempts to get her to talk with you - you will only end up feeling and appearing pathetic. Stop calling. Stop texting. Don't email, don't write, so on and so forth. This is her way of letting you know that you should just go away.
Sorry dude, it's the truth though.
2007-02-13 01:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just give her the space that she needs because she's confused about the future that you two could possibly have together or may not have together, especially if you two are always disagreeing. Then she might see it as no need to try to make it work if all she is doing is stressing herself out, so just be cool and give her the time she needs to clear her mind and hope for the best.
2007-02-13 01:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a break if she broke up with you she really needed her space and she meant it. She really needed some real time to think and you continuously calling her is not helping her think faster or even make a decision in your favor. Give her the space she asked you for give her that much respect. At least for a week or so.
2007-02-13 01:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be she is testing her power in the relationship, or is using this as an excuse to break up. Best thing to do is not call her. Give her time to think things over. Also, if you continue to call her she will lose respect for you and think of you as too needy. As difficult as it may be, you need to pull back from the situation and give it time to work on its own. I believe if you stop calling her or contacting her in anyway she will regain her respect for you and she will call you. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-13 01:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really does need time just give her some space you know try not to make it worser wait ti'll she calls you if she cares abotu the way you say she does than she let you know what's up leave it alone and try not to think about her so much just wait foe her call.
2007-02-13 01:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 01:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man all the girls are like that only.i have the same thing.in my case she have a another man.may that is the reason in ur life also.so she doen't want to hurt u by saying that.so all u have to do is u go and meet her in person and talk to her.if she really have a another person.try to be good friend to her whoo care for her always.and put in ur mind that she is not urs.urs is somewhere in the world..best of luck.
2007-02-13 01:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by JAGANATHAN Mk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything juss give her a lil bit more time and maybe she soon will talk to you and if she doesnt talk to u then move on becuz you may be wasting your time and there are more fish in the sea okayyyy
2007-02-13 01:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know she still cares about you? What's telling you that? Your ego?
Because what I see is somebody who broke up with you and won't talk to you. Good thing she only cares about you and doesn't love you because she might burn your house down.
You aren't paying attention, are you?
2007-02-13 01:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋