How important do you think is to remain chaste till one gets married? (for boys as well as girls)?

Question

Be frank!!

Answer 1

I think very important - practically speaking you won't have to worry about diseases and such - but even more important is the fun you'll have discovering sex for the first time together - no preconceived ideas on what you like or anything like that - nothing to compare things to - it's all water under the bridge but I wish I would've waited.

Answer 2

VERY IMPORTANT!!!!Some one said about opportunity I don't any boy or girl has had more oppotunities than myself and my guy but we both remained chaste for the right person and ofcourse since I'm talking about me and him we found the right person in each other. It's really important flirting, going out is all good as long as you don't get physical and all cuz there's SOMEONE special for everyone in life that they find sometime and believe me when you love someone so much you don't want them to be non-virgins and obviously they don't want you to be non-virgins either. It's the best thing because than you won't get in any fights relating to either his past or yours. If you're talking about being chaste while you're with that SOMEONE special than that could be another case if you think you'll stay with him and he'll stay with you for the rest of his life than go ahead because there's only so much time you both can hold it but if not than don't even try. As per religion .... no religion allows that kinda stuff every religion requires for its followers to stay chaste until marriage that's a different thing not everyone follows it but it's good if you do.

Answer 3

if the opportunity does not knock the door then every one remain chaste till their marriage

Answer 4

It is only as important as you think it to be. Religion says something else - stresses on the important of virginity upto marriage. Nevertheless, its your choice. Nothing is good or bad here.

Answer 5

Boys/Girls should be chaste always and shall experience sex with spouse, or else they feel nothing new in marriage. Govt. (man made) laws cannot restrain them from losing virginity. Religious teachings/laws alone will keep them away from unwed sex, which they voluntarily believe and strictly practise with consent, wish and will.

Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.

. All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.

Answer 6

It's totally important. I would be very hurt to find out that my boyfirend has lost his vrginity b4 he met me.

Answer 7

As important as honey.