2 weeks ago,a coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. B4 this we had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf not in the US . During all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. I felt hurt and angry since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. Days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. Then 2 weeks ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other civily and say hi. He said I was too weird and that I shouldn't email, text, or say hi to him. I haven't but he looks.
2007-02-13 00:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember answering this question last week I think . Well I say back off and let him be a jerk . I know you think he's hot and you can see yourself with him ,but he is immature and a cheater . Would you want someone to do this to you when you find a man . Say he went out of town and you were in your town and there was a girl who was flirting and trying to be up on your man . You would hate your man if you found out he was saying I have a girl so the only thing you can do to get over me is by sleeping with me . How would you feel ? Back off and let him be the dog he is . For real he is a waste of time . GOOD LUCK !!!!!
2007-02-13 00:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's also confused because like he said, he thinks you're weird. He may also be flattered in some way because a lady had actually confessed her feelings to him... You know its like he feels so handsome that someone actually wanted him even if he already is taken by someone else. Also, maybe he doesn't know what to make of you; if he'll end up his friendship with you and totally push you away or pretend that nothing happened between the two of you... Maybe that's why he looks at you...
2007-02-13 08:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Clauds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things like this actually happen?!?
How weird is that? Why do you even care? This guy sounds like an ars#hole, he really does. Probably gets off on a bit of flirting but when it goes a bit far he backs off because he has a GF - good for him not cheating but shame on him for teasing you.
Just forget about him, he isn't worth thinking about.
2007-02-13 08:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Yayick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you should learn to respect yourself more. Sex isnt a toy used to convince a guy to be with you! Secondly, do you really wanna be the "Other woman"? Life is a circle, what comes around goes around, dont let him use you to cheat on his g/f or you will be cheated on in future. Just ignore him, you dont need an idiot around to hurt you all the time. Dont you think you can do better??
2007-02-13 08:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not fall in his trap. he is simply using you. he wanted to sleep with you and you refused. Since he did not get what he wanted he broke from you. he is not interested in your relationship but to spend a night with you. Ignore him and more over he has a gf. Find a nice partner who can understand your feelings.
Best of luck.
2007-02-13 08:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe him..you are weird.
but thats just him saying that and its up to you to follow up on what you want in life
if you want a life of a roller coaster everyday up and down and mostly down then keep on doing what you are doing
its for sure you need help as even if this is a joke you are still i sick cookie
2007-02-13 08:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are confused.Take time to sort yourself out.I knw it is painful to separate from your friend. Going out with him would have been even worse.Count your blessings and move on.The lull will fade away
2007-02-13 08:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you at all, he just want's to use you and if he is gonna let lust get in the way of friendship, shrug him off. i'm sure you can spend your time with much better people than that.
2007-02-13 08:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by twit4luv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing games is for busters
2007-02-13 08:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do sound weird...
2007-02-13 10:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by Christina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋