Is it born or can it be learnt?
2007-02-12 23:35:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You learn it.....I've learned it from my hero...My dad! It's best if you learn young then that's all you want to be.
2007-02-12 23:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can learn to be a nice guy and perhaps a gentleman, but its more to do with the sort of person you are inside and that is natural to you.
If a guy is trying to be nice sometimes you can see his true colours when he is stressed out, or angry, or drunk etc. Its not a good idea to mask who you are just so that girls think you are a gentleman.
Plus not all girls dream of being with a true gentleman. I dont mean that we dream of being someone mean, but we dont all want the guy who is too nice all of the time. We want you to feel natural and not like you are auditioning for our love and approval all the time.
I once dated a guy who was perfect, but I couldnt handle it for too long because he was just too nice for me. If I stubled when we walked he would be so concerned 'are you ok' 'is there anything I can do' 'do you want to sit down'. Its ok the first time but not every time you hurt yourself ior get a paper cut.
You sound like you are probably a lovely person anyway...just be yourself!!
2007-02-12 23:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course. U can either be born with it or learn it. But then again, don't become toooo much of a gentleman until it gets soo boring. U must have a bit of a spark in u from time to time, like a naughty side.
2007-02-12 23:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, there is someone out there for you who would think you're perfect only if you're with a person that was meant for you.I know this may sound cliche but believe me it's true, you don't wanna spend the rest of your life pretending to be the perfect guy because it'll really suck you dry.
2007-02-13 00:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mavops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant learn it
and you are kind of born with it
being yourself is the key just the way you were born and raised
every girl/woman has their own opinion on what their dream man is
you will find the right girl when the time is right
just remember BE YOURSELF
2007-02-12 23:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes every man can , but its outdated, thats why there are so many women with guy problems on this Q & A (singles and dating) category
2007-02-13 03:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but they won't like it...it takes the stud out of them
a women marries a man and wants to change them but
the man marries a woman and hopes she never changes.
this is the problem...then after the women changes the man..
she looks at him and says "you are not the man I married"
and the man does the same. amen ..end of story
2007-02-12 23:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a gentleman is a talent, acquired after hard effort and diligence. classy women are very attracted to gentlemen.
2007-02-13 00:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink it can be taught to a boy but only if he truly wants to learn and paul who says a polite boy cant be a stud???a lot of the guys i know r polite but they r pretty studly
2007-02-12 23:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..........Dream on. Not unless he was taught while a child. Same goes for a girl to be a lady.
2007-02-12 23:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by lee d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋