She is going through the "oh all men or dogs" stage. I never had a girlfriend ,and I really like this girl and I know I will treat her right but the only thing stopping us from being together is her pain from previous relationships. How long until this things blows over? I don't wont to come at her like "oh you know I would never hurt you" because that what all guys say when they try to get laid but I don't wont to have sex with her I just want to be in a meaningful relationship.
2007-02-12 23:00:00 · 4 answers · asked by supabadd49 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aproach her with care. Jusy kidding. You may be just what she needs. As a woman, I know about going through that because I'm there now. I know once I get my divorce finalized I will have a much better attitude towards men in general. I am quiet sure there are plenty of good men out there and I should keep looking on the bright side of things. If that "good man" came along I hope I could see past all the crap and know it right away. I know there is always someone who is just right for everyone , The girl you like will see you are sincere if you don't treat her badly and don't try to get her in bed right away. Take your time and be as honest as you can with her. I think if you try this you could win her heart away from the past hurts she has left in her head and heart. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-12 23:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's been through alot... and maybe she just needs some time... or ... you could go and buy her a bunch of roses, take them over to her house, knock on the door... and ask her out... as out there as that may sound, girls will always be a sucker for a nice guy with confidence. good luck man.
2007-02-12 23:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by hol_here 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be better to just let things cool down for awhile and let her alone. She could be looking for pity. It depends on what you want to put into this relationship. What you think it's worth. Are you there to heal her or have a relationship?
2007-02-12 23:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self and always do the best as you can...
All women like that when the man they love is really willing to do everything to her.
And I know she will realize that you really are not like her past relaionship.Your different and you are one of the special in her heart.
2007-02-12 23:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋