My man goes quiet ,like he is keeping a low profile; and one time i decide i will not show that any thing is wrong i just call him . leaves messages. he stays days like like 2-4 days then calls . he says i wish you goodnit,are you okey. And i just answer like nothing is wrong.
But i really like him so much and love him. So i always thought to myself it is nice to send a text and tell him am a straight forward person and someday he will know. He did not reply. but after some two days he calls to confirm how am doing and wish me a good nit. something keeps telling me that he thinks of me but does not know how to express. Because his work evolves moving anytime to different region in UK or country. Could this be the problem . or what can you guys tell me.
At the moment i am calm and something keeps telling me he guilty about our relationship and one day he will confess he loves me ,or not or unsecure about this relationship.
I really don't know what to do at the moment.
2007-02-12 22:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After reading your story, I can tell that your man doesn't love you anymore ~ a man should be passionate about love and his lover, but sounds his attention for you slightly inadequate ~ leave him for good. He's not so trustworthy and faithful for you!
2007-02-12 23:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by the way you've explained it it sounds like there's absolutely no communication goin on at all with the two of you. Not hearing from him for 2 to 4 days and all he says is goodnight or are you okay?! Are YOU ok in the head?? It doesn't sound like much of a relationship to me BUT you say you love im so if you want to save this you better start straight talking an tell im exactly how you feel. It amazes me how many ppl r in relationships jus plodding along not wanting to rock the boat. B straight and at least you'll know either way chick's!! Good luck x x
2007-02-13 07:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Not sure about this guy. Regardless of how busy someone is, they should always have time to contact you (particularly after you've left messages) - even if just texting. But to go silent on you for up to 4 days at a time..? Very odd.
It sounds like you are very much in to him but, and I hate to say this, from what you've written I really couldnt say the same about him. Probably my suspicious mind working over time here, but am beginning to wonder - could he perhaps have, or be with, someone else..?
For me, personally, there would be too many questions that needed answering and problems that needed resolving before I could fall for someone like this.
2007-02-13 08:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by cutepropertypa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really never know if a man loves a women.
Most men are not mature enough for a relationship with a women and i am a guy and have been married three time.
When I was a traveling man on the road i would eat and drink with my mates and we always ended up talking about sex and how we are going to get some..and most of the time we did not as we just talked about it and drank more then we should have.
A man on the road is like a sailor at sea..he can have a girl at every port but most of them don/t ..i only talked about it but its hard on any relationship with you and your guy friend..it takes a strong women to put up with a life like this..i got off the road and my life got better and I have been married over twenty years now..
2007-02-13 07:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u really love him & his loves u too...
maybe he is just too busy with work, maybe he thought it is not the right time to show his love to you...but don't be sad, just enjoy the sweet mood in love and BE PATIENT...
i am sure u will get together one day... don't know why, just feel it
2007-02-13 07:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to no if a man loves u is if he turns off the football and say u are all i need
2007-02-13 07:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by spec_007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So who is he telling good night to the rest of the time....? i see your point.... hes cheating on you.....
2007-02-13 08:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you love him and then ask him for an honest answer assuring him that you won't panick!
2007-02-13 07:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by rolexa_joanes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋