...doesn't come with a load of baggage, ie, ex's they are still in love with, or children who hate you? I am in despair, and feel like giving up! How have you done, if you have done better than me, please tell me how.?
2007-02-12 22:56:35 · 22 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well possibly but i think by that age many men have had a past.My boyfriend is 40 and has a 3 year old but i dont mind as i have a young child too.Im sure there are some out there.
2007-02-12 23:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There definitely are! I met my boyfriend when he was 34, and he didn't seem to have any large suitcases in his wake. Admittedly, had I have known his age, (as I was 21 at the time) I probably wouldn't have even considered him, but the more I got to know him, his age was something I didn't even think about so much so that I was shocked when I found out, as he really doesn't look his age!
I'm not meaning to gloat, but he is gorgeous, with no kids, and his own teeth! Seriously, sometimes I really think that's he's too good to be true! Yeah he has some bad habits (doesn't everyone?), but he really is lovely!
Yes there have been a couple of delusional ex's who have crept out of the woodwork, to declare their undying love (friends reunited should not be allowed!), but other than that, we have been really happy for the past four and a half years.
I met him through a mutual friend, not as a set-up (I was happily single), but we completely hit it off from the word go, and the rest as they say is history!
There are loads of single 30 something guys around with out baggage (I know quite a few), so I really think you will meet someone.
Good luck x
2007-02-12 23:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, I am just about to hit 30, my last serious relationship was about 5 years ago, and well and truly over it!!! Kids erghh no way! although some people think thats strange, I just dont want it! baggage I can do with out. I just live my life for me! I know some of my mates are in the same position. I guess you are not really meeting the right kinds of people!
Mind you haveing said all of that I often see women who are accompined by loads of baggage! so works both ways! Anyway good luck with your search.
2007-02-13 00:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done very well.
Dont want to rub it in but my boyfriend is 34, im 21 mind. we met years ago but have been together for 3 and bought a house together last year. Hard to believe but before that he lived with his mom and dad.
He is gorgeous has no kids but does have the exs chasing him but i dont mind because (hard to believe again) he has never cheated on any of his girlfriends (i know this as we have been friends for many years before we got together)
I love him loads, no bad habits, well..... nothing too bad but he does like going out with his mates.
There will be someone out there!! just don't look and he will come to you!
2007-02-12 23:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Lexi♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once u've hit 21, u tend to have baggage of one form or another. but don't give up cos there are people out there over 30 who are ok. u just need to keep on looking. u never know it might just be around the next corner.
2007-02-13 10:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave up and opted for a toy boy, well truth be told, he asked me out, but Im glad he did. no baggage, no kids and hes in a good place in his life. Dont limit yourself by age, I was and was getting to the same stage you are at. My BF is 8 years younger than me, yeah I know thats really young, but it doesnt make a difference when Im with him.
2007-02-12 23:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Scottish Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be on the other side of the fence.
I'm a single male who only seems to meet single women with kids, have a weight problem or have kids AND a weight problem.
And those that don't have kids are either drunks or dope heads or both.
I'd like to meet a normal women who's ambition in life is NOT to have a boob job.
2007-02-13 00:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by downunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm in my mid 20's and I can't find a guy that isn't in love with an ex either. Guess you just have to keep looking. Don't give up, sometimes it's all about timing.
2007-02-12 23:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife did - me. Mind you, my ex and I went through the most amicable divorce ever. My 3 daughters adore my new wife. I don't love my ex but still consider her a friend. After all she is the mother of my children and was a very good mother. I suppose I'm lucky that things have turned out the way they have.
2007-02-12 23:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
whats wrong with us men over 30 with baggage dont tar us all with the same brush
2007-02-16 06:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by woolly bully 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋