i have a dilema.
this really nice guy that av been chattin away to 4 a while now has asked me to go on a date with him and i said yes but now am having second thoughts.
the reason for this is that am still hung up on my ex. i really loved this guy and still really miss him and dnt think there is a chance of me n him gettin bk together. but the fact that i still have feelings for him makes me think that maybe i shouldnt go on a date with this other guy as i may be leading him on and i dnt wanna do that. help plz!!!
2007-02-12 22:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a difficult one, however provide you are honest with this guy and say you still have feelings for your ex, then there is no harm in going on a date. If he likes and respects you he will appreciate your honesty and give you time and space to work through your feelings for the Ex. In the mean time there is no reason why you can go out have some fun and see where things evolve. If the cards are all on the table and you are both honest then you both know what you are getting in to and there is less chance of getting hurt on either side. You never know your feelings may change and you fall for this guy and forget all about your ex? Important thing is just to be honest, and relax have some fun and see where it heads.
Hope this helps!
2007-02-12 22:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not doing anything wrong if u are going out with him ...its not right to sit inside and not living ...maybe its what u need right now to get over ur ex , relax and have a nice time ... u dont have to make any commitments just because u went out on a date with this guy
have a wonderful time x
2007-02-13 06:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out, you may have fun...and see how you feel. You can't put your life on hold while you wait for yourself to get over him. 1 date isn't leading someone on so go and have a good time!
2007-02-13 06:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by ✩☆✩HAPPINESS✩☆✩ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you go out with this guy, but make sure he is aware that you are not sure if you are ready for a new relationship just yet. As long as you make sure he knows what is on your mind then you won't be leading him on. Just don't make any promises that you're not yet sure you can keep.
2007-02-13 06:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just one date. You're not making any major commitment if you go out with him once and you won't be "leading him on" either. Just go on the date. If you don't like him, tell him that you don't want to pursue anything and don't date him again.
2007-02-13 06:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on, and go on the date. It would do u a lot of good, and u can have lots of fun. If the other guy feels lead on, it is his problem. U enjoy yourself without any committements.
2007-02-13 06:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooner or later you have to get over your ex
its just a date nothing more
even if nothing becomes of it you may find yourself with a real good friend
go have fun and don't worry about it just think im sure your ex does not dwell on you
2007-02-13 06:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i think you should tell your ex how you fell and if he does not fell the same way than you should go on the date maybe it will help get your mind off him and help you get over him go out and have fun.
2007-02-13 06:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by qween B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav to move on n go on a date wit this guy who knows maybe his better than ur ex
2007-02-13 06:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by cathleen C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go and make sure you give him a fair chance and let him spoil you.
2007-02-13 06:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by bryan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋