ok well I'm a single mother at the age of 21 and last satruday I seen the father and he wanted to talk to me because he missed me and well I think I totally blew it. I was being stubborn and now he is back with his ex. what should I do cause now I miss him more than ever and I'm so scared to talk to him. some one please help me......
2007-02-12 21:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that you thought it through and that you are willing to speak with him. Don't express your feelings, just listen to what he has to say...if he opens doors for you to express yourself in return, then go for it.
2007-02-12 22:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has never really divorced his "ex" and now they're back together, you have no business messing with a married man. However, if "ex" only means another former girl friend, then I guess it's fair game. Call him up and say you're sorry the way you acted last Saturday and since you share the parenthood of a child, you'd like to meet him and make peace.
The child needs to grow up seeing both of his/her parents being civil to each other. Then, if the spark is still there between you two, let nature take it from there. There may be fireworks between his "ex" and you once she finds out you're trying to get the guy back but you need to fight for what you want, right?
I'm giving you my advice from the vantage point of a guy. I know I'd like the woman who cares for me to be willing to fight for me and just not sitting there wishing and waiting.
2007-02-13 06:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be stubborn any more because you have a children to raise. So call him ask him to join you for dinner or I do not know for a coffee sit down and talk like 2 adults about all the problems you have In case he wants to talk to you and he will open again his heart in your face stay calm and listen to then and try to find out a way to solve all the problems you have any why not to get back together. Show him that you care and you are sorry do not be proud and arrogant.
2007-02-13 06:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is really deep, but you have to mentally let go of him. Ask yourself this question: "what would this man have to do in order to regain the appreciation I once had for him?" This will keep you from feeling like you're not in control of the situation, because in all actually you're always in complete control.
2007-02-13 06:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brady S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a phonecall for sure!! hes the father of your child so you have an automatic connection, your totally entitled to ring n den jus b lyk sorry i wus nt myself the other day and i would really appreciate if we could talk.. and if he's smart he'll ditch his ex and get bac with u!! if he tried to talk to U already that shows hes intrested!
hope dis helpd, gud luck x x x
2007-02-13 06:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by say whatt?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably made the right decision to blow him off. If he really wanted you he would not have gone back to his ex so quickly. Think about the reason he is your ex.
2007-02-13 06:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what have you got to loose get your family back together do whatever you have to invite him over for dinner go slow and steady but make sure u let him know what is inside your heart.i lost my love recently and i know how much it hurts its been a year and it hasn't diminished one bit .i would do anything to have my wife and 3 kids back together all the time
2007-02-13 06:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't blow it, it didn't work out the first time around and he was back with his ex pretty darn quick there....he must like going back to ex'es... ...be civil since you are co-parents, but move on......you will get over missing him, just like you did the first time......
2007-02-13 06:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it Katherine Tate's character says:-
"yeah-but-yeah-yeah-but-yeah - my friend says that she said that Tracy said - yeah-but-yeah-but-yeah-but and really watching paint dry is a lot more interesting !
The comedien has really nailed your type of character !
2007-02-13 06:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he went to her so quick,his words should mean nothing to you.
He's proven himself disloyal already..Pray ...Move on..?He is NOT God-don't make him yours.
2007-02-13 06:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋